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first in foremost..you have your face on a website with your baby..being former law enforcement thts pretty dumb..and if you were cute i wld forgive ya ..me venting on here is my problem not yours missy..if i wanna sit and write hows it your problem?? isnt wht the room is for ya nut?? and btw i dont do things with men on line..men?? there was one..singular...are you his wife?? cause you sure sound like it..or mabey your hubby cheated on you..im venting thts all ..if anyone has anything else to say tht has been in my situation i welcome your comments...dream tend your husband before he finds someone like me:lmao:

 

If it sounds like a troll...and it smells like a troll..most likely it is a troll! Dont even bother responding to this peeps!

 

The only comment I would have is simple..get a life..get educated and get REAL!

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well my update is...im progressing...im still having all kinds:mad: of crazy feelings..ones of anger,of relief,of wht was i thinking...and crazy of them all is i am missing him!! wth..i know you all are like..thts wht i get...but stand on your soap boxes if ya like...idgaf...anywho!!...i went back in a chat and someone was using his name i guess....he says it wasnt him!!....but this person said somthn quick and short and only somthn him and i wld know....i did email him and tell him dont do tht!!....well i got and email back saying..it wasnt him...and for me not to start!!...tht hes picking up the pieces of his life and moving on with his wife...i had this angry black out and went nuts with the words i sent back...it hurt my feelings more then anything!!....after consuming every part of my life...you dare say to me..dont start!! ..i lost it...i told him..how dare he say this to me...and i didnt want him...that i was delusional in the first place because he wasnt all tht to wake up next too..that he mad enough money...to get those 3 grey teeth fixed in his mouth ..were he got a root canal...and was in need of having the many skin tags removed..tht i find gross and not attractive..and was on the verge of calling him cue ball...i found myself physically attacking his apperance....wich yes....out of all the ugly and bad we have both did..is important to me ...i know most wont get it...but we were never even on the looks department..hes not busted!!..he works out ...alot of folks will say shallow and all types of stuff..but i was wondering is there anyone who ever was blinded by a bond you had or have with another..but deep down inside you know the physical attraction isnt what you can wake up next too everyday?.. i need to lose a couple lbs but thats it!! and the obvious other stuff ive done with this jerk...i tried to hit him below the belt with the looks thing!!...at one point he told me his wife was fat..needs to lose weight..had celulite somehtn awaful and wont wear more then a t shirt and jeans and there was nothn sexy about her undies...yes i said to him..wht if i gain too much weight he assured me ..it wasnt the same!!...tht part i never believed!!!...for now i will ust take the attacks and questions

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OK, punctuation and paragraphs are your friend.

 

It's darned hard for people to sit and read through a post that has neither.

 

Dropping a bit of the 'tude and adding the above will probably help you get a lot more response/advice from others.

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If it sounds like a troll...and it smells like a troll..most likely it is a troll! Dont even bother responding to this peeps!

 

The only comment I would have is simple..get a life..get educated and get REAL!

You tell me to edcucate myself?? really? your telling others not to respond?? yet you did..take your own advise!!!..and somone who calls herself princess....is in lala land it seems like herslef...how wld you know im not educated...i hope you have somthn more then your troll comment ...im far from it girly!!..if it was so bad why didnt you just pass it up?? and no matter wht ive done you no princess to me...and people like you come with their own drama!! ...there is a reason why your in this type of forum boo boo lol;)

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i can betcha its from doing more then one thing at a time...and not paying attention..this room is not my life..and i did not know you were grading me..not tht igaf

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OK, punctuation and paragraphs are your friend.

 

It's darned hard for people to sit and read through a post that has neither.

 

Dropping a bit of the 'tude and adding the above will probably help you get a lot more response/advice from others.

read between the dots..its seperated where you can read it!!!!...ust like this>>>..... if ya cant ...thts your problem!!..somebody will be able to read it...plus you can take your sarcasm and stick it where the sun does NOT shine!!;)

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Ilonia.....you are being very defensive. Chill out and maybe open up your mind and listen a bit. Most people here are well intentioned and some have some really good advice.

 

As Owl........said and Owl is very wise, if you'll make the effort to punctuate, capitalize and spell check your posts you'll get more respect and responses. Google toolbar has a nifty little spell check built right in, why not try it out. My spelling is atrocious.......so thank heavens for spell checkers. ;)

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You tell me to edcucate myself?? really? your telling others not to respond?? yet you did..take your own advise!!!..and somone who calls herself princess....is in lala land it seems like herslef...how wld you know im not educated...i hope you have somthn more then your troll comment ...im far from it girly!!..if it was so bad why didnt you just pass it up?? and no matter wht ive done you no princess to me...and people like you come with their own drama!! ...there is a reason why your in this type of forum boo boo lol;)

 

 

:laugh:I thought Princess was a user name.

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read between the dots..its seperated where you can read it!!!!...ust like this>>>..... if ya cant ...thts your problem!!..somebody will be able to read it...plus you can take your sarcasm and stick it where the sun does NOT shine!!;)

 

 

Reads like my teen txtn.

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llonia... the Forum has BUILT IN SPELL CHECK!!! all you have to do is rightclick on a word to fix it. Also, since you ARE trying to tell your story of your very selfish life decisions it would be good of you to use sentences and paragraphs. This isnt a CHAT ROOM it is a FORUM! There is a difference.

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Okay I'm still curious to know why his wife had her breasts removed if she didnt' have cancer. You say the MM told you this, was he telling the truth?

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first in foremost..you have your face on a website with your baby..being former law enforcement thts pretty dumb..and if you were cute i wld forgive ya ..me venting on here is my problem not yours missy..if i wanna sit and write hows it your problem?? isnt wht the room is for ya nut?
What the hell? Did you write what I think you wrote?

I can say with confidence that pretty much every guy on this entire forum thinks Tigers is cute....

You need to stay away from men for a few years and work on your basic social skills + figure out why you got yourself into this screwed situation in the first place.

Even Distant78 and Fryfish are trying to help you in their own way. Sometimes help comes in the form of a quick kick in the arse. I've recieved a couple harsh kicks in the arse in my day and in retrospect it was the best "advice" I ever got.

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What the hell? Did you write what I think you wrote?

I can say with confidence that pretty much every guy on this entire forum thinks Tigers is cute....

You need to stay away from men for a few years and work on your basic social skills + figure out why you got yourself into this screwed situation in the first place.

Even Distant78 and Fryfish are trying to help you in their own way. Sometimes help comes in the form of a quick kick in the arse. I've recieved a couple harsh kicks in the arse in my day and in retrospect it was the best "advice" I ever got.

 

Yes Tigers is pretty cute. Those nice lips with her beautiful baby in hand.:laugh:;)

 

I honestly think if someone says something like that about Tiger that she was never a police officer, yet cheaters/OM/OW in law enforcement do have a lot of narcissism inside of them. Think they can screw with anybody's life and not pay the consequences like any other civilian.:rolleyes:

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