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Ex is friends with an old friend though they weren't when we were together


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I know it may sound a bit childish of me but I find it somewhat odd, suspcious and Annoying. They both liked me, but basically my ex and an old friend are all of a sudden actually buddies now that we are broken up, yet when we were together my ex wanted nothing to do with this friend. They barely talked to each other before and the final straw for my ex (who I was currently dating) was him finding out this friend liked me and was saying things to make me look bad.

 

To make matters worse I confided about different aspects of my personality and talked to this friend (who I will never again talk to!) about my bf.....well he told my ex lots of things that weren't meant or wanted to be shared.

 

Idk what do you think?

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I think that while it's annoying when people gossip about you behind your back, it's probably better for your emotional and mental health to not put anymore thought into people like your ex and old friend.

 

Go NC with both. They are not worth your time and energy.

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Also , next time you have a bf, and you feel the need to talk about him or your relationship with him with a third party--

 

don't choose one of his friends!

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