Heatemyheart89 Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 I got dumped on boxing day bur my ex keeps texting me things like hope youre ok and happy new year etc.I think he is doing it to make himself feel better.he's also said he still loves me and cares about me etc and he knows he will regret it!ahhh confusing!
Author Heatemyheart89 Posted January 1, 2011 Author Posted January 1, 2011 Boxing day =day after Christmas
Author Heatemyheart89 Posted January 1, 2011 Author Posted January 1, 2011 No problem :)yeah I am definitely thinking no contact right now
GoingInsane Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 I've been going through the same things with my ex. For some reason, the dumper seems to think that by keeping in contact and saying things they think you want to hear, it will make you feel better and ease their guilt. I had it for just over 3 months. Today I decided enough is enough (found out about past cheating and her new relationship a few days ago) and have gone totally NC. I feel like I've wasted 3 months clinging on to the scraps of friendship and concern thinking its something more. If your ex wants to get back with you, they know where to find you and what they have to do. Silly texts that don't really mean anything aren't the way to do it.
SimonSerenade Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Save yourself from the heart ache and go no contact, Show him he can't just come and go as he pleases, I am sorry you have to get dumped the day after Christmas, It's pretty harsh, What's the full story?
Hades Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 I got dumped on boxing day bur my ex keeps texting me things like hope youre ok and happy new year etc.I think he is doing it to make himself feel better.he's also said he still loves me and cares about me etc and he knows he will regret it!ahhh confusing! My ex is doing the same thing. I just ignore him. I wish him well IN MY HEART. Any communication is too freakin painful at this point. Ignore for your own sanity and stop obsessing over his motives and intentions. How you move forward after a break up has everything to do with YOU. Make it easy for YOU. Although I find it makes me stronger when he texts me because he is the one violating the no contact rule ... dummy. He is looking for a reaction from you. Maybe he is missing you. Only he really knows his intentions for contacting you after HE broke it off with YOU. Focus on your healing process. Good luck to you, hon.
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