irc333 Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Lately, I've been browsing dating sites, and I'm bumping into some women that I know from real life, like at parties, or other real life venues where people socialize. I was wondering, if you get a good study at a few key aspects from the profile....like perhaps their favorite motto/saying. Or they pointed out some movie or book that really influenced their life. When you see them again, at a friends party, use THAT to your advantage, it'd make a great icebreaker and can definately win points, right? But do NOT mention you saw her on a dating site....just use the INFO from her profile on the dating site for use in conversation when chatting her up. Not a bad idea, right?
LifeIsGreat Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Sounds good to me as long as you are not using as manipulation. i.e.- profile says she's really into animals, but you hate them but pretend to like them. Get the idea?
Author irc333 Posted January 1, 2011 Author Posted January 1, 2011 Yeah, I would avoid hobbies that I don't like (if they like them), typically it would be better to talk about her personality and such. I know this one woman said she's not much of a high maint person, and bring up that subject. Say something like, "I take it your more of a low-maint gal, right?" And she'll say, "Yeah! That's me, how'd you know!?!" lol Sounds good to me as long as you are not using as manipulation. i.e.- profile says she's really into animals, but you hate them but pretend to like them. Get the idea?
2010_Sorry Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Yeah, I think that's a little creepy. Maybe I'm old fashioned though....
hART Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 Yeah, I think that's a little creepy. Maybe I'm old fashioned though.... I understand wanting to be prepared, but that would give me the creeps. Why not just send them a message on the site? worth a shot, right?
stepka Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 Just be sure that when you tell me that Harold and Maude is your favorite movie too, that you've actually seen it. I would catch on really quick if you hadn't and then I'd be wondering where you got that if you hadn't actually seen the movie and then if i saw your profile on there. . .
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