GoingInsane Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 You may have seen my other thread with all the gory details of my split with my ex 3.5 months ago and my discovery of her affair and now new relationship with the same person! I should be furious, I should hate her, want nothing more to do with her, stop thinking about her. But I just can't. I've wiped all her texts from my phone and won't be replying if she does try to contact me again (I don't think she will anyway now). I'm quite strong on that. But I just can't seem to bring myself to delete her from Facebook. She doesn't even write on there very much - but I am almost obsessively checking it just in case she does. When someone writes on her wall I feel better knowing where she is, or who she's with. But I know this won't help me move on. I'm also ashamed to say that I have her login details on the computer (we shared my comp when we were together), so whenever I go to login, it brings up mine and her email addresses to chose who to log in as. So I've logged in as her before and I'm continuing to do so. Again I don't know why - the only thing it can bring me is pain if I see her talking of her new relationship. I know I've got to stop this - its wrong and is invading her privacy - I just wish I could delete her log in details so I'm not tempted. It flashes up and I think "oh I'll just have a look". I even told myself today I can remove her as a friend because if I really want to look at what she's been doing, I can easy log in as her. Doesn't that defeat the object?
Leandro Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Well you need to stop the FB thing. It's bad and you know that. Start now for the new year.
TaraMaiden Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Send her a two-line text: "Please change your passwords. I can see everything you can" Then, unplug everything, delete profiles, emails, texts and 'phone numbers, and go out for the day. And quit being an idiot.
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