Raderick Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 (edited) I walk past a bar on the way from another bar just a few blocks away to go home, and there are three woman. All three are Mexican (remember, I'm in San Diego) which are not exactly my type in the first place. One immediately approaches me and asks me what I'm doing tonight. It's obvious that she's drunk, as are her friends (I am also drunk, but I though can still put together logical thoughts in my head) so she asks if I was going to be lonely tonight or if I wanted to take her home. I figured what the hell, she's drunk, there has to be more to this. I take a look at the situation, and I realize that she's pretty upset at two other guys who are being total *******s to her. I take her to the side to try to get her to tell me what is going on, and she tells me these two guys are being jerks to this gal and her friends. I tell her it's ok, I'm here to help calm the situation. She immediately says "you're acting like a girl, stop acting like a girl". After a couple of minutes one of the guys walks up to me, and is pretty pissed off at me for getting involved all of a sudden now that I've positioned myself as the mediator of sorts. I decided I wanted nothing to do with the situation anymore, asked the guys to call a cab for the ladies, shook the hands of the other guys, and went my merry way. I only had to walk a couple more blocks to where I live. I don't want a one night stand. Tried it, hated it, don't want anything to do with it. It's so hard to find a single woman nowadays that wants to be in a long term relationship around my age (20-23), it seems that women wants something for a few months, or a **** buddy, or a weekend fling, or a sugar daddy and move on. It's so depressing and damaging to my psyche to me to the point where I've relegated myself to the fact that I won't be able to meet that one woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. I am a nice guy. I've already embraced it, I want to be the nice guy and I was raised to be kind to everyone with no regard to who they are; there is nothing that will change that. Women say they want the nice guy but the truly want something else, that's already been established. So someone like me will automatically be shut out, and so be it. Edited January 1, 2011 by Raderick
Stonewall Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 I walk past a bar on the way from another bar just a few blocks away to go home, and there are three woman. All three are Mexican (remember, I'm in San Diego) which are not exactly my type in the first place. One immediately approaches me and asks me what I'm doing tonight. It's obvious that she's drunk, as are her friends (I am also drunk, but I though can still put together logical thoughts in my head) so she asks if I was going to be lonely tonight or if I wanted to take her home. I figured what the hell, she's drunk, there has to be more to this. I take a look at the situation, and I realize that she's pretty upset at two other guys who are being total *******s to her. I take her to the side to try to get her to tell me what is going on, and she tells me these two guys are being jerks to this gal and her friends. I tell her it's ok, I'm here to help calm the situation. She immediately says "you're acting like a girl, stop acting like a girl". After a couple of minutes one of the guys walks up to me, and is pretty pissed off at me for getting involved all of a sudden now that I've positioned myself as the mediator of sorts. I decided I wanted nothing to do with the situation anymore, asked the guys to call a cab for the ladies, shook the hands of the other guys, and went my merry way. I only had to walk a couple more blocks to where I live. I don't want a one night stand. Tried it, hated it, don't want anything to do with it. It's so hard to find a single woman nowadays that wants to be in a long term relationship around my age (20-23), it seems that women wants something for a few months, or a **** buddy, or a weekend fling, or a sugar daddy and move on. It's so depressing and damaging to my psyche to me to the point where I've relegated myself to the fact that I won't be able to meet that one woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. I am a nice guy. I've already embraced it, I want to be the nice guy and I was raised to be kind to everyone with no regard to who they are; there is nothing that will change that. Women say they want the nice guy but the truly want something else, that's already been established. So someone like me will automatically be shut out, and so be it. You can be a nice guy and still get women, you just have to walk a certain line. I'd get the e-book "Alpha Man" by Carlos (forgot his last name) if I were you. There are many things I don't agree with but a lot of the things he said made a lot of sense to me. It isn't just a book about picking up women, it's also a book about enriching your life.
musemaj11 Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Get rich. You can be the nicest chump in the entire world and you will still get the hottest girl.
Woggle Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Your first mistake is trying to be a knight in shining armor to a drunk woman. You should have told her that you might be acting like a girl but a real lady does not drunk since she is so concerned about gender roles. Never try to rescue women anymore. Let them deal with their self created drama.
that girl Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 A drunk woman came up to you on the street and asked you if you wanted to go home with her. My first thought would be prostitute, but you start trying to play therapist which she doesn't appreciate. And somehow this all makes you think that women don't like nice guys? Seriously? Don't you think it would be more logical to conclude that people are crazy on New Year's or that people who got up to strangers and ask them if they want to have sex are not mentally balanced? Your whole train of thought doesn't stand up to logic. If you want a nice girl, go where nice girls are. Join a volunteer group or chat up a quiet girl in class. Don't get involved with someone who is obviously nuts and then complain they don't appreciate you.
youngskywalker Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Why would you be concerned about what a drunk girl who approached you and asked for a one night stand? Do you consider her a nice girl? If you're a nice guy then look for nice girls. You'll do yourself well to stay away from the queenies.
Star Gazer Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 And somehow this all makes you think that women don't like nice guys? Seriously? Don't you think it would be more logical to conclude that people are crazy on New Year's or that people who got up to strangers and ask them if they want to have sex are not mentally balanced? Seriously. Also, just because you're in San Diego doesn't mean that every Latina that approaches you is Mexican. There are many latin countries south of the border, ya know.
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