PHMustang2000 Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Let me keep this as short as I can. I transferred to a store and when I did this associate started flirting with me. It felt like a instance connection because she was always in my face flirting and flipping her hair and saying I photograph well. Anyway something happened to where she had to quit. A lot of time passed and I still would often find her in the store. I go on Facebook and I find her profile on there. I didn't think that was her before when I came across it but It turned out to be her. I sent a facebook request to be friends. In the meantime of finding her profile I looked at some of her friends pages and I stumbled on a guys page who states he is in a relationship with her. My plan is to at least start up a friendship and maybe get each other phone numbers so we can talk more as friends and if they break up I will maybe tell her I have always liked her. I found out on my own that she has a bf (Honestly, he seems like he isn't good for her, she has a child and he doesn't want to date women with kids. Its a group he is joined). So it has been over 2 weeks and I have not heard anything. She must of at least seen my profile because she keeps adding other people and I am still left "pending" She hasn't Accepted or Ignored me so what do you think she is doing? I think she might not want me to find out she has a bf (too late) because I think she still likes me but what do you think her reasons are for leaving me hanging in "pending" status?
callingyouuu Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 She must of at least seen my profile because she keeps adding other people and I am still left "pending" She hasn't Accepted or Ignored me so what do you think she is doing? I think she might not want me to find out she has a bf (too late) because I think she still likes me but what do you think her reasons are for leaving me hanging in "pending" status? Please please please don't overanalyze it. I have friends who have kept pending friend requests in their FB inbox for months for reasons that I don't even think they understand. There are a number of possible reasons why she might leave you "pending" that could be interpreted either positively or negatively, so I wouldn't dwell on it. The ball is in her court. It's also dangerous and chaotic to get into a situation with an attached woman, so I would let off of this one.
shayan Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Oh man, don't be so consumed by a girl like this. Move on bro, move on find someone who is single and don't ever wait for a girl to become single so you can be with her.
DuskCrush Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 She doesn't know what she wants to do about your friend request and is thinking about it.
joeLove Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Some people need plenty of time to think through stuff ... ha ha ha ... Like was said before, just move on ... if she comes back ... good. Otherwise, keep moving. Life's too short ...
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