walktheline Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 NYE and I'm getting the feeling that this girl I've been dating isn't really as into me much anymore. We've been dating for the past 3 weeks she worked at my job and recently had to move back home about an hour away because of school. We regularly talk every night and yesterday we met for breakfast before she went to work. But we seem to be talking less even though we spent over an hour at this donut shop doing just that. Last night she called and she was tired so we really didn't talk much and she said she would call me today while I was at work. Late afternoon and no call so I texted her and we briefly chatted and I got the feeling she really didn't want to talk. She had told me earlier in the week that she was staying home tonight and wasn't going out so i said to call me as I work 12 hour shifts and was staying home too as I work tomorrow. 9:30 and no phone call or text so i sent her a brief happy New Year text and jokingly told her not to be kissing anyone else. She texted back that she'd only be kissing her gf and that she was at her uncles cabin. I told her have fun and to call me sometime. Her response was 'ok'd doke' and that was that. Maybe I'm reading into this way to much, but I just get that feeling that things are going a different direction than I'd like. She seemed really interested in talking earlier this week and even showed her mom where I lived when she was in town. I guess I'm feeling a little blown off not to even get a text or 5 minute phone call to say 'hi'. Maybe I'm just expecting too much too early in our dating relationship. Either that or I'm just feeling like a lame-o cause I'm home in bed while she's out partying it up...
no_clue Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 I feel for you brother im having some of the same thoughts with a girl im trying to be with. I think either the girls losing interest in us or that the initial deep feelings of affection are on hold until we can get to know each other more, make sense?
Author walktheline Posted January 1, 2011 Author Posted January 1, 2011 Yeah, I'm probably just being stupid and I guess I wish that I was able to be there with her to ring in the New Year instead of being home. Oh well, those are the perils of a job with weird hours and a semi LDR.
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