Akumark Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 You will feel like sh*t, you will go back in obsessive thinking, you will stop being your better self and go back in low self-esteem (so easy, just like me right now)
cerridwen Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Because even as cool as you try to play it, they can smell your desperation. And nothing is more of a turn-off to them. 2011 is the Year of the Backbone.
jquest1280 Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Because no matter what the response is, it will not be what you want to hear, and you will feel worse than you do now.
stopthemadness Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 I need motive Because 2011 is the chance for a new beginning. Hey for all of us who have a had time with N/C lets all agree no contact at all in 2011!!!
SimonSerenade Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 I'll agree to that, No looking back, They had every chance to come back, The door's closed for her now, Time to move on
Fern Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 1) Because they don't deserve you. 2) Because they haven't really changed and everything you're pretending wasn't wrong is still the same. 3) Because you deserve a drama free life. 4) Because they don't deserve you.
Author BlindRage Posted January 1, 2011 Author Posted January 1, 2011 1) Because they don't deserve you. 2) Because they haven't really changed and everything you're pretending wasn't wrong is still the same. 3) Because you deserve a drama free life. 4) Because they don't deserve you. I'm the one that creates drama in her life she has moved on completely and I keep on bothering her because I haven't. Now, she has been ignoring me completely. Not like before now its full on ignore. I'm hurt that she loves someone other than myself. I don't want to call or text her at all anymore(she never calls or texts me either). I guess I'm scared if she doesn't hear from me she'll forget my existence. I need motivation on why not to contact her.
Fern Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 I'm the one that creates drama in her life she has moved on completely and I keep on bothering her because I haven't. Now, she has been ignoring me completely. Not like before now its full on ignore. I'm hurt that she loves someone other than myself. I don't want to call or text her at all anymore(she never calls or texts me either). I guess I'm scared if she doesn't hear from me she'll forget my existence. I need motivation on why not to contact her. Because you deserve to give yourself a drama free life. You sound embarrassed. Well stop embarrassing yourself. You know it's mostly your ego talking - that's obvious. So tell your ego to put its money where its mouth is and stop acting like a pussbag. Would you rather be forgotten or be that creepy ex-boyfriend who Mummy had before Daddy? x
LifeIsGreat Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 I'm the one that creates drama in her life she has moved on completely and I keep on bothering her because I haven't. Now, she has been ignoring me completely. Not like before now its full on ignore. I'm hurt that she loves someone other than myself. I don't want to call or text her at all anymore(she never calls or texts me either). I guess I'm scared if she doesn't hear from me she'll forget my existence. I need motivation on why not to contact her. Man, are you listening to yourself? Just read what you said above-- that's all the reason you need. PLUS-- she is your ex!!! How's that for a reason.
J0N Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Honestly what's the point, there are other fish in the sea. She isn't worthy
Hades Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 I need motive Because he or she is your ex! Isn't that the number one reason? The new year is a time for reflection and HOPE. Find strength within yourself to move forward. Accept the break up and press on even when it hurts, when it becomes unbearable. You deserve something greater!
USMCHokie Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 Because you don't want to interrupt her while she's with some other dude...?
homebrew Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 Because you don't want to interrupt her while she's with some other dude...? Hahahahahaha! I love USMCHokie... He is one straight shooter and always cuts right to the heart of the matter... whether we like it or not! Keep it up USMCHokie!
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