manchild Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 Hey we have been nc since November 24 should i call her tonight and just say happy new year time for new beginnings and hope everything ok with you etc and tell her ttyl not much I really can handle it I know i can now but maybe open door since her new bf in prison for rest of weekend need read back story to understand thanks for y'alls opinions!
goldenrainbow Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 I, I don't know your story neither who took the NC initiative. My ex texted me saying he would call me at midnight and I'm fine with that. Did your ex text you wishing merry Christmas?
dmncoldworldgrl87 Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 Hey we have been nc since November 24 should i call her tonight and just say happy new year time for new beginnings and hope everything ok with you etc and tell her ttyl not much I really can handle it I know i can now but maybe open door since her new bf in prison for rest of weekend need read back story to understand thanks for y'alls opinions! I say no way!!! I'm not contacting my ex anymore...I did it to say Merry Christmas to him and his family and thats all hes getting from me, if he wants to contact me fine, ill be cordial and say thanks u 2.... i'm never contacting him again!!!!
Author manchild Posted December 31, 2010 Author Posted December 31, 2010 U can some of my story couple days go I put title 6 months new bf goes back to prison then my back story on here too somewhere but we had secret phones n she still turns it on sometimes but doesn't text or call like she is looking for something n no she didn't text for christmas she had phone on all day though
AbsoluteSucker Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 I'm not even taking my phone with me when I go out tonight, I don't how I'll survive, but people seemed to be able to make do for thousands of years. I don't want to do something dumb while drinking or wonder whether she is going to text me or not and distract me from my evening.
Author manchild Posted December 31, 2010 Author Posted December 31, 2010 Very good point u right it so hard i was just thinking since he out picture she may want talk to me or would u know?
9Lives Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 I'm not even taking my phone with me when I go out tonight, I don't how I'll survive, but people seemed to be able to make do for thousands of years. I don't want to do something dumb while drinking or wonder whether she is going to text me or not and distract me from my evening. Good Idea!
goldenrainbow Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 manchild, Do not contact her...Move on.. good advice. My ex just called and I feel like s***.
krymej Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 i kinda feel like giving mine a text, but i dunno what is the best thing to do really, she said she wanted to remain friends, but im just putting it out there id rather type and sound like a jerk on here that it hitting my exes inbox. if she saw my name come up on my phone she may just roll over and go to sleep anyway
Author manchild Posted January 1, 2011 Author Posted January 1, 2011 Thank y'all for your honest oPinions I know they hard tO hear but gotta I want to she acted like she wanted something at Christmas with phone on but nothing came I think she was seeing if I was still there etc?
NeNinja Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 If you're anything like me (and I hope you are, I feel like my breakup is going well ) then you knew the answer before you asked the question. Sometimes it just helps to have someone there to tell you NO!
Duckduckgoose Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 I thought about texting my husband who left me, but nah. He knows how to use a phone.
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