summerdowling87 Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 Help me if you can, Okay I've read this forum and found it interesting. I guess because of my own situation. Okay here goes I'm 23 in a real with my HS boyfriend that I love so much now turned in to a Long Distance real for bout a year now. I put up with thinking since were young it happens and, it being my first serious real that were just getting the knots out and he would change. He would change for about a month or so being the romantic boyfriend and best friend I came to like. But after a month he'd go back(god) So I finally went off to college he didn't And I found to guy interested in me and although I never had sex(but we did Kiss and make out allot) the emotional and attention they gave. I needed and now my boyfriend has started to bring up getting a place gather and, getting engaged since I'm moving to his town to go back to college. I'm afraid if we do and he returns to his old way(and sometimes now)I'll go back to mine so I need help or advice any would do I don't want to be an emotional cheater
desertIslandCactus Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 Your uncertainty says: Don't live together with your boyfriend. Figure out what you want for your life and Who you wish to spend it with .. This is Your life. Don't continue a relationship that you are uncertain about. Date others.
Author summerdowling87 Posted December 31, 2010 Author Posted December 31, 2010 Your uncertainty says: Don't live together with your boyfriend. Figure out what you want for your life and Who you wish to spend it with .. This is Your life. Don't continue a relationship that you are uncertain about. Date others. That makes so much sense to me and yet it's so hard to do
desertIslandCactus Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 That makes so much sense to me and yet it's so hard to do Perhaps it's hard to do because you think he'll be offended if you don't live together .. or you're afraid of loosing him. If you're entitled to be certain before marrying someone, Why aren't you entitled to be certain before living with him? Premarital dating is for the purpose of discovering who you wish to marry, to spend your life with. All the rest is just practice. You don't need practice before marriage.
Author summerdowling87 Posted January 1, 2011 Author Posted January 1, 2011 I do he's a sentive guy which is what attracted me to him and you are so right. He come to visit me so i'm going to talk to him and see where were heading. Thxs for the advice
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