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OK. I'm posting here because I really need to write this letter to my ex.

Dear-

Do you ever stop and think of the mayhem you have caused in all our lives? Now that you are with your new partner and her daughter, living the same kind of life as you shared with us and working in the same kind of job can you please explain to me what is so different?

You hated your job -and yet there you are teaching again?

You hated having a family and the responsibilities and yet you are raising another woman's daughter who is not a patch on your own and of similar age?

WTF are you doing?

I really want to move on and forget you but this anomoly is like an open, festering sore and I can't until you answer it.

I suspect that this is NOT what you anticipated and that you will never have the guts to admit it.

Your children despise you and your actions.

I am completely trashed but pulling myself slowly up.

I am making a new life for myself and our daughter and start a new job next week.

But this is not what I anticipated either.:sick:

Posted (edited)

I hope that writing this letter helped you. But I also hope that you decided not to send it because I think that whilst it's good to get it out there, I've found that in the long run it usually doesn't achieve what we want it to achieve when we vent directly at the person who upsets us.

 

Good luck with your new life and your new job. :)

Edited by january2010
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