fwang Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 I dated this guy for 3 and half months and we broke up yesterday. I initiated the break up thing on the phone. When I called him, I said, "I don't think we are a good fit. I am demanding and you are laid back. Maybe we should take a break." Then he said "I am so glad that you bring it up. Actually, I am thinking of the same conversation.You are a great person to date even though our relationship doesn't work out. I think it's all my problems. You can pick up your things in my place on Sunday. Happy new year to you and have fun. " I had been thinking of the breaking up for almost 2 months. And then this guy thanks me for bring it up. Suddenly,the table turned. Damn it!
gisellefromhell Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 So what, you wanted him to be all broken up about you not liking him? Or you weren't expecting that he felt the same way as you do about him?
Author fwang Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 So what, you wanted him to be all broken up about you not liking him? Or you weren't expecting that he felt the same way as you do about him? The reason why I want to break up with him because I can't feel his affection. But he kept saying that he likes me very very much and how incrediblely nice, beautiful and sexy I am. But I don't think he is that into me at all. So I thought for a while and decided to break up with him. Then why he didn't initiate the break up?
gisellefromhell Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Does it matter why he didn't break up with you? What matters is that YOU didn't like him. And now you don't have him. Also, if you knew that he wasn't into you even if he was saying those things, why are you surprised when he agreed that you should break up?
joeLove Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Cause he wanted you to initiate it, so he could blame it on you later... ;) Honestly, does it it really matter? I have the feeling you are both a little immature ... for sticking with something you clearly don't want... It is a recipe for disaster ... You should forget the guy asap and ask yourself: What did I learn from this and take the lessons you learned into your next relationships ... The reason why I want to break up with him because I can't feel his affection. But he kept saying that he likes me very very much and how incrediblely nice, beautiful and sexy I am. But I don't think he is that into me at all. So I thought for a while and decided to break up with him. Then why he didn't initiate the break up?
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