9Lives Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Okay it occured to me that maybe I need to work harder at trying to get a life than dwelling on the past. Honestly I still can't believe he is gone for good but I guess he is. I'm trying to accept it still. So now I guess I'm gonna work harder on getting more of a life. My life is not bad now but seems like I need to do more. Next Level!
january2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Good idea! This is exactly what I did while I waited for my heart to catch up with my head.
shocked_confused Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Okay it occured to me that maybe I need to work harder at trying to get a life than dwelling on the past. Honestly I still can't believe he is gone for good but I guess he is. I'm trying to accept it still. So now I guess I'm gonna work harder on getting more of a life. My life is not bad now but seems like I need to do more. Next Level! Next level indeed! Go out and get more social, and move on up Goooo get'em!
2010_Sorry Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Great attitude. Just be patient with yourself and expect that you will have both good and bad days. Just because you have a bad day where you focus on the past doesn't mean that you're not healing... big hugs!!
Breakupguy12 Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Okay it occured to me that maybe I need to work harder at trying to get a life than dwelling on the past. Honestly I still can't believe he is gone for good but I guess he is. I'm trying to accept it still. So now I guess I'm gonna work harder on getting more of a life. My life is not bad now but seems like I need to do more. Next Level! Were you not working on getting a life during the NC period?
Author 9Lives Posted December 31, 2010 Author Posted December 31, 2010 Were you not working on getting a life during the NC period? First of all, thank you all for the encouragement. Group Hug!! Yes breakupguy, I have been but sometimes you just going thru the motions. Trying to get your shine back. Trying to get thru the pain. Trying not to think about it. YOu doing things that make you happy but you still looking back. times comes when you have to stop looking back. That is when you are truly getting your healing really on. Take time to know the love is really gone. REALLY gone. Especially when you love someone alot.
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