Vickstar Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Im not really sure what i'd say if my ex ever contacted me, but im just curious as ive never had a relationship before apart from the one with my ex, he broke up with me 3 months ago, he left on ok terms but we never talk, ive never begged him to come back cos thats not me. but any stories of dumpers contacting their ex's even when it seems impossible. I know it may never happen but just interested and need to know more.
Author Vickstar Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 ah yes ive heard about this, i am trying to move on but deep down im hoping he will return, i shouldnt really be hoping at all cos its not good for me. Im going to be working on myself in the new year so maybe he might notice after a while.
e.clipse Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 only when you are no longer interested not necessarily. my exbf kept coming back time and time again like a bad fungus whenever he so desired. even when i felt like i no longer wanted him in my life and tried to cut him off, he knew me well enough to be able to contact me--sometimes in rather obscure ways--and worm himself back into my life. the same holds true for the times i longed more than anything for his return, with the only exception being that his effort was minimal as i was readily accepting of his return. so, yes, the probability of them returning, regardless of how dire it may seem, is never zero, unless they are dead. more likely than not, they will come back whenever it is convenient for them. whether you accept this behavior or not is entirely up to you. i think you will be in the clear and better off not when he returns to you and you two rehash the past, but when you can sing along to: "i used to run to you, now i run from you" and have a shot of whiskey and say, "Oh, thank GOD! woo hoo, let's keep paryting, guys!"
Karma20 Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 DO NOT GET YOUR HOPES UP but all mine came back and so did my friends. Just because the come back doesn't mean they are sincere, they could be lonely or know you'll take them back without them having do beg. Usually yes it's when you don't want them or you least expect it. Honestly, move on and don't talk to him.
Breakupguy12 Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 I personally never got contacted by the lady that broke my heart years ago. I called her a few times though, until I realized it was over.
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