garycoleman Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 I have been dating this girl for about a month. I loved her personality and I thought we were doing good. The first 3 weeks, we went on 3 dates and seemed to hit it off. 1st date I got a hug, 2nd date we kissed, 3rd date we held hands and also kissed. Both of us have last week and this week off of work and school so we spent 4 days straight together including Christmas (thursday-sunday) going to various theme parks and events. Thursday and Friday we had so much fun together and she seemed into me. We also held hands throughout the whole day and kissed at the end of both of those nights. On Saturday I felt she was not all there but still got a kiss. When we were out Sunday and Monday I felt things got even worse. When we held hands, my fingers were wrapped around her hand, but she just stuck her fingers straight out without wrapping around mine as if she does not want to hold hands. She usually wraps her fingers around my hand firmly but not this time. And she did not seem like she was into me as much as before. When I dropped her off on Sunday I did not get a hug or kiss either. I called her yesterday and asked how she was doing. She said she was going shopping with co-workers today. I asked her what she was doing on NYE and said she is going over to a friend's house. If she really liked me I thought she would want to spend NYE with me. So I figured things were over between us even though she didn't say it straight out. However she said next week, she wants me to go over and show her the pictures from the 4 days we spent together. I am not sure I even want to see her next week if things are over between us.
Misa Misa Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 She might want to get to know you more... Did you ever told her that you like her? She might think you are just playing with her. You are not official yet, right?
zengirl Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 She might just want some time to herself, and one month in, you might spend NYE together, but you might not. It's reasonable that she might have made plans before you were a big factor. If she wants to see you again, that means it's not over. Just wait and see if she follows through next week. Chill out, in the meantime, and enjoy your own NYE.
Author garycoleman Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 She might want to get to know you more... Did you ever told her that you like her? She might think you are just playing with her. You are not official yet, right? I thought she already knew I like her and don't need to say it since we were kissing and holding hands.
Author garycoleman Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 She might just want some time to herself, and one month in, you might spend NYE together, but you might not. It's reasonable that she might have made plans before you were a big factor. If she wants to see you again, that means it's not over. Just wait and see if she follows through next week. Chill out, in the meantime, and enjoy your own NYE. I don't know if I'm crazy but I think she wants to see me because she wants the photos. There are also photos of her by herself so I have a hunch she wants those to show her friends what she did over Christmas. Also during our 4 days together, she took pics of herself with her iPhone4 to foward photos instantly to her friends of what she is doing. But she never took pictures of me and her together with her iPhone to send to her friends so I think this is also raising some flags.
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