ChameleonMan Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 She kept you for the emotional attachment. You were someone she felt comfortable with consoling in, more of a friend. She may be trying to hold onto that aspect of her life, but it doesn't seem like she cares about you and your wellbeing. Most importantly, you need to train yourself to stop asking these questions about her. The interest you have in her is hindering your ability to get over what has happened.
Author Apoorv Posted February 21, 2011 Author Posted February 21, 2011 Hmm .... you are right ... thats what i thought also ... its only because she does not have many friends around ... and about the questions .... now m in such a stage i dont really care what happened ..... but sometimes these things just pop in my mind ..... one more thing .... like whenever she is in trouble or any problem she will call me .... i have told her so many times to call her bf but still she calls me ....... and if it is really urgent then i dont mind helping her out ..... like yesterday, due a past incident she was feeling unsafe so she called me to spend the night ... i actually dont mind all that ...... and everything is cool actually ...... but physically i am attracted to her ( is that a bad thing?? as she is only a friend now ) ..... but anyways i dont care much apart from that ...... only thing is if she asks for help i cant really deny it ( this is ok right ???? ) .... but emotionally i m not very attached to her as a matter of fact i never call her ... only she does ..... but its all good i think now ..... has anyone of you come across a relationship of this kind .... i am eager to know ...... one trivia about me ........ i have had 3 gfs .... all 3 elder than me by 2+ yrs ..... all of them dumped me ....... none lasted more than 4 months ..... all had reasons i could not counter or fix ...coincidence or is something wrong with me ???? . speaking of which, i got attached to this one only ....... but whatever if it was to happen it would have .... anyways i will keep you guys posted on this weird story of mine ......
Author Apoorv Posted February 24, 2011 Author Posted February 24, 2011 Wats up wats up wats up my PEEEPSS ... lols ... i think i have finally reached the end of the road ... the climax of our story and stuff like that .... but yesterday a weird thing happened ... i was at her place watching the match .. and was constantly texting my friend about the match ..... she got really really curious as to who i was chatting with ... upon her asking i said that its a girl i am interested in (which was not the case) ... i went to get something to drink as i came ... and to my surprise she was browsing through my phone to see who i was actually talking to ... she has never done that .. not even when we were together .... and neither have i .... i got real angry and told her that i was angry ... she said that she was really curious and also sorry if it offended me .. i wanted to ask her but did not (to save me trouble) ... WTF is going on in her head ??? can anyone tell me .... i mean we should not be doing stuff like this now right ??? ......
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