DYME Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 (edited) I'm 21 years old my baby daddy and I was together for 2 years we decide to move in together 11 months ago it only last it until dec when we had a really big arguement and decide to take a break where I go to my moms house and he was going to his mothers house .We would talk everyday and he would take me out to eat dinner and so on .... until this sat where I would call him and he would only text me .His ex wife wrote me a message on fb saying it must be very tought to sleep alone so I ask him he said his not with her .I drove by her house and saw his car park outside .I called him and he said go home and go home i was crying so much I couldnt talk .He text me today saying he cares about me and still loves me I dont know what to do I'm going crazy....I've being calling him using the baby as an excuses .help me Edited December 30, 2010 by DYME
Leandro Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 I'm sorry that he did that to you and your baby. Pretty messed up of him. I really wish I could give some advice, but I've never been in your situation. Don't worry though, others will come and help you out. Sorry I couldn't help.
homebrew Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 I have to ask this... Does anyone else find the term... Baby Daddy Annoying and stupid? It's like they are trying to remove any sort of responsibility a Father has to his child by calling them that. I'm just saying...
PowerOfOne Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 It's like they are trying to remove any sort of responsibility a Father has to his child by calling them that. And now i know what a baby daddy is. And yes, it is annoying. What happened to the english language... That whole post was hard to read. DYME, I'm sorry about what you're going through. I can't say i can help never being a parent. All i can say is that no matter what you do you can't change his decision. Only he can. The sooner you accept that the better. Let his actions speak for him. You can't hang on the fact he text you to say he loves you while he's off with his ex wife. Don't let him string you along like that.
BellaBellaBella Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 I think you should block all calls. I think you should go no contact. Let him come and find you and be stellar loveie. What was the fight about that caused the break? Was he married to his ex?
Author DYME Posted December 31, 2010 Author Posted December 31, 2010 The fight was because I check his phone and I saw a text where his very concern about his ex telling his brother make sure she get home ok blah blah blah.I waited for him to come out the shower and ask him why he was so concern and he got mad because I check his phone I started to cry and couldnt stop he kept telling me I didnt do nothing to u stop.
Woman In Blue Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 I have to ask this... Does anyone else find the term... Baby Daddy Annoying and stupid? Always have. It's so ghetto. The OP also posted this on another board, but in that post, she mentions her 'boyfriend' is 38 years old. It sounds as though he was having fun having a youngin' for a playmate, but she went and ruined things by getting pregnant - and took all the fun away. DYME, I wouldn't bank on your "baby daddy" (ugh) sticking around while this kid grows up. I think you're in it alone and need to face that. He's obviously checked out of this relationship and he's piece of sh*t for doing it. Get smart about birth control and don't make the same mistake over and over in future relationships. There's nothing honorable or attractive about having different kids by different "baby daddies."
Duckduckgoose Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 Always have. It's so ghetto. The OP also posted this on another board, but in that post, she mentions her 'boyfriend' is 38 years old. It sounds as though he was having fun having a youngin' for a playmate, but she went and ruined things by getting pregnant - and took all the fun away. DYME, I wouldn't bank on your "baby daddy" (ugh) sticking around while this kid grows up. I think you're in it alone and need to face that. He's obviously checked out of this relationship and he's piece of sh*t for doing it. Get smart about birth control and don't make the same mistake over and over in future relationships. There's nothing honorable or attractive about having different kids by different "baby daddies." I wish there was a "thumbs up" option for good posts
homebrew Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 It sounds as though he was having fun having a youngin' for a playmate, but she went and ruined things by getting pregnant - and took all the fun away. Yeah! She really messed it up for the 2 (now 3) of them... It could have been so perfect! I fail to understand the logic with this thought process... "I am going to get knocked up so he will want to be / stay with me". And what I really do not get... That they are actually surprised when that plan / strategy fails. What has the world come too? Poor kid...
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