Lucky555 Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 So I ask the guy again now what our plans are for new years eve.he tells me he wants to stay him ok fine and I tell him I want to spend time with him and he says to me that he thinks it's funny. I'm just really annoyed now becasw I feel as though he should have way more respect for my feelings. I think it's ridiculous because what the heck am I soon wasting time! He could even give me a time because of his work and then all of a sudden he is gone. I'm very perplexed here and way more angry with him. He even said him and I ave not talked in a week and that is such bs to me when I had been initiating conversations and he can pick up his damn phone and call! I'm just so tire of it already. I'm just so tied of wasting energy It's like I rather be single :/ it feels like I'm single and by judging how this guy is acting just feel like saying I'm done. Ugh I'm not heartbroken but I'm just not going to try with someone who doesn't want a relationship and I won't be used either so I sent him a message I am really done with him if we are not getting together when I know he has time it's just showing a lack if effort. Do u all think it's just a good indicator to end it? I will only have seen him twice if we meet this week in a month!!! I can't have a relationship like this.
Surrealist Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Hold on a sec? Didn't you have a thread the other day where everyone was pretty much advising you that this guy has no interest in you? I stand open to correction, but if this is the same situation, well you have your answer already and your persistence and anger is hurting noone but yourself.
Author Lucky555 Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 Hold on a sec? Didn't you have a thread the other day where everyone was pretty much advising you that this guy has no interest in you? I stand open to correction, but if this is the same situation, well you have your answer already and your persistence and anger is hurting noone but yourself. I just found out what the issue was he and I have not spoke for a bit and he was antsy I was waiting for him to initiate. Anyways he and I are getting together I just have to talk with him about communicating like for him to use the phone or something. I will also feel his vibe when I see him
BackUpOrGetStung Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 He still doesn't give a **** about you, even he meets up with you, forcibly. Best to move on, but have fun torturing yourself.
Author Lucky555 Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 He still doesn't give a **** about you, even he meets up with you, forcibly. Best to move on, but have fun torturing yourself. well we were friends before and he did pursue me for months. I am going to give him the benefit of the doubt. For some reason he doubts himself as i have found out because of his past relationship. My plan is to take it easy and see how it goes. If he doesn't make an effort i have to tell him straight out like im going to tell him tomorrow in person. Im really just going to say hey im not the only on who needs to make effort, you do too or its not going to work. I know what i want and i also know relationships require effort. So im making an effort and he is too. He even told me today he wanted to take me out to dinner its just happening so slowly. It seems he is going at a different pace but like i said i will know more once i see him. I know right now he is essentially working two jobs. So this is half the reason why we don't see each other more. I got to learn patience myself and keep busy with my stuff.
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