michee Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Ok found out my MM started seeing someone else while we broke up...sorta. He states he hasn't slept with her. Ok the kicker is he wants a threesome with her and me...Gross. Is it ever ok to disclose to BS...the truth..
Fieldsofgold Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Ok found out my MM started seeing someone else while we broke up...sorta. He states he hasn't slept with her. Ok the kicker is he wants a threesome with her and me...Gross. Is it ever ok to disclose to BS...the truth.. IMHO, the BS should always be informed . . . Immediately, if not sooner.
bentnotbroken Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Ok found out my MM started seeing someone else while we broke up...sorta. He states he hasn't slept with her. Ok the kicker is he wants a threesome with her and me...Gross. Is it ever ok to disclose to BS...the truth.. Always okay in my book...but would you be in a hurry to run to the BS if he hadn't asked for a 3some with you and oow?
whichwayisup Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Seems you only want to spill the beans to his wife because the A ended and he's found another OW, asking you to join him in a 3-some. Where were your thoughts of concern and telling his wife while you were having an affair? If you choose to tell her, own your part in having an affair with her husband. Apologize, answer all her questions, be honest and don't put all the blame on him.
whichwayisup Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Ohhh..Yes if you tell exMM's wife, be prepared for the consquences and fallout on your end. Your exMM could easily turn around and tell YOUR husband the truth about your affair, or exMM's wife could call your H as well.
LakesideDream Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 When it's over.. it's over. If you and your MM "broke up" leave it as it is, no chit chat, no 3-some's. Tell your MM how you feel and ask him to leave you alone. If necessary, there is always NC.
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