bsilmb Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 hey so there's this girl I've been talking to since august when school started. she's on newspaper with me. we are sophomores. and I got her number after talkingto her fe over an hour after school one day. I *flirted with her but then things faded for a couple months but now she's texting me every few days and kinda sarcastically calling be a stud and what not but being flirtier than ever. she also seems to act like an alpha female. she sometimes is slow to respnded to texts and tries to be in charge.* I'm not sure how interested she actually is in me. I mean she touches me playfully sometimes to mess around and what not. but she may just be naturally flirty. she seems halfway interested in me.* what should I do?
shayan Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 just be staightfoward if you like her start flirting with her more, then ask her out. Don't be afraid of rejection.
Author bsilmb Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 just be staightfoward if you like her start flirting with her more, then ask her out. Don't be afraid of rejection. alright that's my plan. I'll just be playful with my flirting, but eventually progress it to being romantic. I think she knows I used to like her, not sure if she still thinks that.
that girl Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 she also seems to act like an alpha female. she sometimes is slow to respnded to texts and tries to be in charge. Seriously don't read too much into things. She isn't your girlfriend, she's a semi-friend. Sometimes she is going to be busy and not text back right away. It doesn't mean anything. She seems to like you. Just ask her out. You've been building things up for at least 4 months already- bite the bullet. Otherwise, you might come into school one day and find out she has a boyfriend.
Author bsilmb Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 so she's different and is all sarcastic and flirty with me when we text and talk. but so we are texting and I said something silly about how masculine I am, and she goes "rawr, sexy" I asked if she used animal noises often. she says yep and I said it seems kinky to me. the she says "yeah I know it turns you on. I'm going to bed, text me later" TEXT ME LATER! not ONCE since I've known her, has she told me to text her later. it may sound like I'm overanalyzing, but I'm pretty sure this is a sign of attraction, at least from her. so how do I act on this? don't wanna come off as needy and text her immediately in the morning, but then again don't wanna be a total d!ck and wait til 10 at night.
ConflictedGuy27 Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 just ask her out, mate. in case you're color blind, those are green lights she's been flashing at you.
Author bsilmb Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 so she's different and is all sarcastic and flirty with me when we text and talk. but so we are texting and I said something silly about how masculine I am, and she goes "rawr, sexy" I asked if she used animal noises often. she says yep and I said it seems kinky to me. the she says "yeah I know it turns you on. I'm going to bed, text me later" TEXT ME LATER! not ONCE since I've known her, has she told me to text her later. it may sound like I'm overanalyzing, but I'm pretty sure this is a sign of attraction, at least from her. so how do I act on this? don't wanna come off as needy and text her immediately in the morning, but then again don't wanna be a total d!ck and wait til 10 at night. also, right after that message I say, "oh yes, you drive me crazy. try not to dream about me toomuch though." then she says, "I can't promise you that ;)" ^^^ this is like joking flirting I'd say. is this building a sexual tension?? thanks in advance.
Author bsilmb Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 just ask her out, mate. in case you're color blind, those are green lights she's been flashing at you. yeah I mean, it's not all in seriousness, but I don't think a girl who is JUST a friend would be doing flirty stuff like this.
that girl Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 She does seem interested. But if you don't ask her out, she's not necessarily going to turn down other guys in the hopes that you will. Someone else could snap her up.
denise_xo Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 just ask her out, mate. in case you're color blind, those are green lights she's been flashing at you. This. Come on, bsilmb, just do it.
Author bsilmb Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 This. Come on, bsilmb, just do it. oh thanks y'all!
Author bsilmb Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 yeah so we are being flirty and playful right now. should I hint towards a date with something like. "hey I'm going on a date, so you should tag along."? then basically show her I want her to go on a date wit me. she's being more flirty than ever in my opinion.
joeLove Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 Ask her straight up for a date ... Are you both into movies? If so, take her out to the movies ... or some other place (dinner date, ...), where you can have some time together and be close to one another ... then you can touch her more "accidentally" ... Don't be too hesitant ... she is waiting for you to drive ... so, take charge a little more and stop pretending
denise_xo Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 OP, if I may summarise, all of your threads can be condensed to something along the lines of "girl x is flirting with me/ being affectionate with me/ making signals that she wants me to kiss her. What do I do?". We just want you to take some action and ask them out (there seem to be several??) and kiss them now No more 'hinting' or 'planning'. Just do it.
Author bsilmb Posted January 2, 2011 Author Posted January 2, 2011 yeah so we've been texting daily and she's kinda flirty at times. we are still on winter break until the 4th. how should I escalate things? I kinda wanna go on a date, but I wanna be flirty first, what do I do? thanks y'all
Green Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 what do you think I'm going to say. More importantly what do YOU think you should do?
Author bsilmb Posted January 2, 2011 Author Posted January 2, 2011 what do you think I'm going to say. More importantly what do YOU think you should do? I'm assuming you're going to say that I need to step up and just ask her out. I think I should, but is it okay to ask over the phone. I kinda just want it to be casual. I don't want her to think I already like her a lot. I want it to be a challenge for her. so what about that?
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