acexx Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I feel really bad for what i did i just recently told my g/f that i was married in the past and we have been dating for the past 3 months no she doesn't know what to think and i owned up to my mistake i feel so bad because i was to insecure/ashamed that i was a failure to tell her and felt she would like me less if i brought that up. I told her i feel really bad and she told me that she doesn't want to break up and that her feelings for me haven't changed one bit, but im scared and this is eating at me because I made a stupid mistake, i just feel really horrible. Im just wondering what do i do now?
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 I suggest having another talk to her about your concerns. If she insists that it's not bothering her, leave it at that. There's only so much reassurance she can give. She's already told you that she doesn't want to break up, nor have her feelings changed. We all have things in our past that we aren't proud of but we have to learn to move past those things otherwise they will start to eat away at our present and future. There is nothing shameful about having been married before and now that you've told your girlfriend about your marriage, it's out in the open. You haven't messed up. You've remedied the situation by being honest about your past. That should be a cause for relief not more anxiety.
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