Feelin Frisky Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 All I can sy is I empathsize. This is a tough message to face after a Christmas of closeness. I don't balme you at all for wondering what's what. One day your his girl and the next you can't even get some reassuring consolation as to why you have to tough New Years Eve out without him. Try to make the best of it regardless but sorry you had to hit this wall.
GooseChaser Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 (edited) I can understand why you wouldn't want to be the one to ask him in this situation. It's New Year's Eve, and you just want him to make you feel like a priority by expressing the desire to spend that time with you. Why should she ask him out here? If he really wanted to spend that time with her for the special occasion, he would have asked. Why make it easy for him? Why reward him for not trying? It's okay if she really wants to reach out to him, but in my opinion, it's understandable if she doesn't want to. On the other hand, he did spend Christmas with you, and you two have been dating for a relatively short time. I'd see it as a good thing that you did get to spend time with him on Christmas. Either way, do what you want to do, OP. Have a great New Year's Eve and Day! Edited December 31, 2010 by GooseChaser
TaurusTerp Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 The situation seems pretty clear to me. He wants to spend NYE with his friends, and you want to spend NYE with him and aren't getting the message. And I personally think Christmas AND NYE is too much 1 month in.
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