bigmesss Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Ok long story short. Was dating a guy for a month and a half . He asked me to be his girl friend ,meet his parents, told me everything about him, yadda yadda. We are both busy so we both barely have time to meet up .So we seen each other about 3 times. We met up on the day after Christmas and we had sex. I don't regret having sex or anything. I did it because I wanted to . Anyway we went unprotected( I am an ass , I know).I had a test before him , so I know I was clean. Anyway two days later . I have a horrid uti.I know it isn't something that is only from sex. I have been to the doctor and getting myself better. I am not mad at him. Since I had sex with someone unprotected on my own and have to live with the consequence. Anyway, since that night he started acting weird. So I called him out on it last night and he has yet to get back to me. I really don't care if he doesn't want anything with me . I am now in a messed up situation. Do I call him and let him know he need to go get a check up. Or ignore him like he is ignoring me. Help, please.
january2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Tell him. If he continues to act like a jerk, go NC. And remember the lesson for next time.
Jannah Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 First, relax. Second, a UTI is not an STD. You likely have the UTI as a result of being freaky deeky with him, and bacteria passed through his hands, or your own bacteria.
Author bigmesss Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 I feel like **** that he is acting already so cold to me. I don't think I can stomach an actual conversation with him. Would a text suffice?
Author bigmesss Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 First, relax. Second, a UTI is not an STD. You likely have the UTI as a result of being freaky deeky with him, and bacteria passed through his hands, or your own bacteria. I am still waiting for my full test results. I am hoping that is all I have.I just rather he get his self checked asap. I would want someone to tell me. Idk you never know.
january2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 ^^^ Wait for your full test results. Text is fine if you can't face talking to him.
Author bigmesss Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 Thanks I think that will be the best option
Jannah Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I am still waiting for my full test results. I am hoping that is all I have.I just rather he get his self checked asap. I would want someone to tell me. Idk you never know. Why would you want to scare him, by telling him you may/may not have a UTI? Wait for the final results from the physician before concluding what it may or may not be. Besides, if it is an UTI, you will 100% know it.
Author bigmesss Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 No I know I have an UTI. That is a fact. But I have not got my STD/STI test results yet. I am not trying to scare him.
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