bonerman Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 ...when you know that no matter what you do, you will never be with that person. They will never feel the way you do and there's nothing you can do about it. But all you can do is accept it and move on.
Stonewall Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 ...when you know that no matter what you do, you will never be with that person. They will never feel the way you do and there's nothing you can do about it. But all you can do is accept it and move on. That is easier said than done.
somedude81 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Bonerman, I know exactly what you mean. I liked her, really liked her, but I knew she didn't like me. Once the semester was over I tried to hang out with her again but she didn't return my text. Knowing things were over, I sent her a goodbye email, which of course she didn't reply to either. We've been "friends" for a year, hell calling us friends is a stretch. I think she just tolerated me and used me for entertainment when she was bored. Either way, I know better than to keep bugging her. After trying for months with no real progress, I know there is nothing I can do anymore. So I'm actually going to go out of my way to avoid her next year, or else I'd never move on. So I deleted her number and email. With time, she will leave my active thoughts and retreat to the place in my mind where all the girls I never got, go
Stonewall Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 How about when the girl obviously likes you back but doesn't want to give up dating multiple guys as well? That is a hard pill to swallow. It's that so close yet so far.
Jannah Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 This is true. All of us have been there, done that, and have worn the t-shirt at one point or another.
Author bonerman Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 Bonerman, I know exactly what you mean. I liked her, really liked her, but I knew she didn't like me. Once the semester was over I tried to hang out with her again but she didn't return my text. Knowing things were over, I sent her a goodbye email, which of course she didn't reply to either. We've been "friends" for a year, hell calling us friends is a stretch. I think she just tolerated me and used me for entertainment when she was bored. Either way, I know better than to keep bugging her. After trying for months with no real progress, I know there is nothing I can do anymore. So I'm actually going to go out of my way to avoid her next year, or else I'd never move on. So I deleted her number and email. With time, she will leave my active thoughts and retreat to the place in my mind where all the girls I never got, go I wouldn't go out of my way to avoid her. Just live life as it comes.
denise_xo Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 This is true. All of us have been there, done that, and have worn the t-shirt at one point or another. Agreed. OP, hope you get over it soon. Good luck with moving on.
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