USCGAviator Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 First off let me toot my own horn for a sec and say that I'm a fantastic kisser. And you know how it feels when your lips connect perfectly with your partner. I also practice good oral hygiene. Now this one is a challenge... I've been seeing this wonderful woman for about 2 weeks now and the only problem I see right now is her kissing. She peck kisses and doesn't really work her lips well. I'm nonverbally trying to coach her with my kissing but progress is moving slow. I'm a very passionate kisser and this barrier is gonna take a toll if I can't fix this. Anyone here ever had to coach a bad kisser?
OceanGirl Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 What do you mean peck kisses? Does she use her tongue at all?
Feelin Frisky Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Some zig when they should zag. I don't know if I would try to coach. If she can't make out, it's a deal breaker--just like no head. Done.
Distant78 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 First off let me toot my own horn for a sec and say that I'm a fantastic kisser. And you know how it feels when your lips connect perfectly with your partner. I also practice good oral hygiene. Now this one is a challenge... I've been seeing this wonderful woman for about 2 weeks now and the only problem I see right now is her kissing. She peck kisses and doesn't really work her lips well. I'm nonverbally trying to coach her with my kissing but progress is moving slow. I'm a very passionate kisser and this barrier is gonna take a toll if I can't fix this. Anyone here ever had to coach a bad kisser? Well be patient if she's a wonderful woman. Try teaching her VERBALLY how to move those lips. Since you're such an expert, you're probably going too fast. Don't leave her because she doesn't know how to kiss like a pornstar.
Author USCGAviator Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 What do you mean peck kisses? Does she use her tongue at all? Yeah not alot of tongue more so kisses like how you kiss someone on the cheek. The sex is good but damn....good kissing makes sex 1000x better.
Stonewall Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Yeah not alot of tongue more so kisses like how you kiss someone on the cheek. The sex is good but damn....good kissing makes sex 1000x better. The girl I'm dating doesn't like to use her tonge much either.
Author USCGAviator Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 Well be patient if she's a wonderful woman. Try teaching her VERBALLY how to move those lips. Since you're such an expert, you're probably going too fast. Don't leave her because she doesn't know how to kiss like a pornstar. Hey now I'm no expert and I certainly don't kiss fast. To me passionate kissing is slow, sexy and really heats things up
Feelin Frisky Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I don't like ones who give short kisses and make a lot of noise doing it. It's like a gesture of half-stepping a kiss and sorta buying you off. Whenever I see couples kissing and I hear all that sharp loud kissing sounds I think, gee, they don't really like each other do they?
Distant78 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I don't like ones who give short kisses and make a lot of noise doing it. It's like a gesture of half-stepping a kiss and sorta buying you off. Whenever I see couples kissing and I hear all that sharp loud kissing sounds I think, gee, they don't really like each other do they? Ohh man, as much as I don't want to admit it, that shyt is so true!
Distant78 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Hey now I'm no expert and I certainly don't kiss fast. To me passionate kissing is slow, sexy and really heats things up Yea, I feel you on that one. Tell her to stick some tongue in there next time.
OceanGirl Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Hmm not really sure if you can teach someone. For me, I usually lead and set the pace/style and it's the best when guys just go along with me (most do). When they try to introduce their own thing it's usually not that great for me... Maybe you should be more aggressive and just take control of the kissing.
Author USCGAviator Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 Theres no noise but they are definitely short kisses. I love long passionate kissing. And is why this will be a problem if I don;t rectify this. I feel its too early to go with the verbal approach. I'm gonna do the nonverbal coaching for awhile to see if I can get her to open up
Author USCGAviator Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 Hmm not really sure if you can teach someone. For me, I usually lead and set the pace/style and it's the best when guys just go along with me (most do). When they try to introduce their own thing it's usually not that great for me... Maybe you should be more aggressive and just take control of the kissing. I always lead in kissing but she insists on throwing it off with small smootches. The other women before adapted well...Not sure why she is not getting it.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I lerv kissing a woman who wears lipstick. It's like splush, and you're all wet and lubed in the first instant without her opening her mouth. Mmmmm, that feels good.
runner Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 meh. an ex of mine wore lipstick a lot and that waxy taste got old real quick. now, with flavoured lip balm- bring it.
OceanGirl Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I lerv kissing a woman who wears lipstick. It's like splush, and you're all wet and lubed in the first instant without her opening her mouth. Mmmmm, that feels good. Serously? I thought guys hated that. I almost never wear lipstick on kissing dates...
Distant78 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Aww yes. Especially red lipstick. Love it when fiance wears it and she kisses me. And she adds that wet tongue to it and sticks it down my throat I go crazy.:love:
Feelin Frisky Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Serously? I thought guys hated that. I almost never wear lipstick on kissing dates... Oh yeah. Seriously. I don't know from other guys though. But THIS guy loves the feel of fresh lipstick when moving in for a nice long passionate kiss. I just keep thinking of one I loved who used to ride around with me in my restored 1968 Buick. The car had no console so we sat close together with my arm around her. I would turn and kiss her on every red light. And splushing into that lipstick gave me instant lumber. I'm sure I looked a mess getting out of that car--a happy happy mess. Hope springs eternal it will happen again soon with someone new.
OceanGirl Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Oh yeah. Seriously. I don't know from other guys though. But THIS guy loves the feel of fresh lipstick when moving in for a nice long passionate kiss. I just keep thinking of one I loved who used to ride around with me in my restored 1968 Buick. The car had no console so we sat close together with my arm around her. I would turn and kiss her on every red light. And splushing into that lipstick gave me instant lumber. I'm sure I looked a mess getting out of that car--a happy happy mess. Hope springs eternal it will happen again soon with someone new. I may just wear some lipstick for my next date
Feelin Frisky Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I may just wear some lipstick for my next date Report back.
biochemgrl Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 If it's a kiss that just grosses me out, then yes. Deal Breaker all the way. As a woman, if I kissed someone with "pecks" and I showed no passion with the way I kissed them, then: He's an overbearing kisser and I'm avoiding the salivia on my face. I like him, but trying to get him to tone the tongue down. (a womans mouth is not her vagina)I'm nervous, but as an adult that's not going to last very long.I'm not that into him. I think a great kiss sets the tone for many good things. There will always be something to adjust to with a new love intrest, for both people. Good Luck!
biochemgrl Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 No passionate kissing at all? Whew- Sorry, deal breaker. If I don't end a heavy kiss by gently biting your lip then softly tracing them with my tongue before . . . . . . . . . moving on to other activities. . .. . . . . maybe she can't breathe? Lipstick huh? hmmmmm, always a good idea but messy in public, lol.
that girl Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 OP- are you sleeping with this woman? If you're not, my guess would be that after just a couple of dates she isn't comfortable with intense kissing. You're trying to lead her to what you like, but short pecks screams "I don't want to french kiss you!"
Distant78 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 No passionate kissing at all? Whew- Sorry, deal breaker. If I don't end a heavy kiss by gently biting your lip then softly tracing them with my tongue before . . . . . . . . . moving on to other activities. . .. . . . . maybe she can't breathe? Lipstick huh? hmmmmm, always a good idea but messy in public, lol. Not if you were the kind that doesn't leave a trace.
Madgick1 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 A smoker and a nonsmoker, ughh for the nonsmoker. I had a guy who had so much saliva kisses were always slimy and nasty. And he just thrust his tongue in and flopped it around. There was no give and take in the kissing. A bad kisser. If she's willing to have sex with you, but not willing to do much kissing, that is puzzling. I wonder if she knows there is a whole world of erotic kissing out there she's missing. If she's just been around nonkissers her whole life. Would you feel comfortable saying, "Just make your lips soft and let me kiss you. I just want to kiss you." and then show her what you like? That would be romantic.
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