carrie999 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I certainly do. My MM happens to be a luddite in terms of our current society. he owns a computer, and works on one all day, but only started chatting and text messaging once our affair began. He doesn't turn on the computer at home unless she is asleep, or he can come up with a convincing reason to go online to "research" something (in particular, holiday shopping). Despite being very young, he only goes online when it directly pertains to work, shopping for something specific he cannot find in local stores, or (only recently) talking to me. I know he's not here, and I doubt he'd ever find this forum. It does have the benefit of making me anonymous, but on the other hand, it would be nice to hear his "anonymous" thoughts about his current situation. Just curious...does anyone scan this forum or similar ones in hopes of finding some clarity from either MM/MW or someone who sounds EXACTLY like them?
TinaniT Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 Early on, before all that has happened, I did a few searches through various sites including ones he mentioned to see if I "recognized" his ex wife to see if the way she was portraying it matched the way he was portraying it to me. Temporary bout of jealousy and not trusting. Pretty normal with my relationship background, but my first instinct was the man hiding how he really treats the woman; lord knows my ex was an expert at hiding what was going on behind closed doors with us. But I did that, if that counts. Still in the arena of hoping for some secret access to thoughts and facts we worry we aren't being told for whatever reason. My love was, however, always honest and it's been verified since when the real time to know came. Reinforces how important trust is in a relationship.
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