Adi Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Hi, i have been on here now for a year and a half, on and half, my ex loved me allot, i never showed her that love back, and she cheated left me we got back toghether after we both new what we lost but i never got over it, and i broke up with her. Six months later, i no i still love her so much, i can handle not being with her, infact i prob could get her back if i wanted too, but i no it would never be the same, in six months i have had over thirty dates, at the moment there is about 5 girls i could be with, but no one can replace my ex. Anyone got any ideas, i would just like too say i never used any of the girls, once i new it was not going anywere, i dint just have sex, then not call them,
Leandro Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 but no one can replace my ex. No one can replace our ex'es I think. Just have to start fresh with a new girl and don't make the same mistakes.
Breakupguy12 Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Adi - any ideas regarding what exactly? I may have misread your message, but I couldn't figure out exactly what you're wanting to get accomplished here.
2010_Sorry Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Reach out to her! Tell her how you feel! What do you have to lose?
Shadowburn Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 If she cheated on you, lied to you, broke up with you and so on - she is NOT the one. In fact, THE ONE is never in your past. That's just how it is. So try to move on, 6 months is about time for you to start see things more clear. Even tho you've had 30 dates and no one seems as good as your ex, you just have to keep trying moving forward.
Author Adi Posted December 28, 2010 Author Posted December 28, 2010 What i mean is, on the one hand i love her so much, and i just wont too wake up next too her, but on the other my brain takes over, and i no we can never be happy now. Do i just settle for second best, they say it is better too have loved and lost, i had a Bentley, but that Bentley is all scratch and dented, do i just go out and get a regular car, if that makes sense. I feel like im ok life is ok, but there is just something missing, even when i see her she never fills that void now, its like the person she was is who i wont
rebeccajones Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I have that same void I want to fill. I also want the man that he was. I understand what u are going through.
Author Adi Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 How long have you felt like this?
Karma20 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 What i mean is, on the one hand i love her so much, and i just wont too wake up next too her, but on the other my brain takes over, and i no we can never be happy now. Do i just settle for second best, they say it is better too have loved and lost, i had a Bentley, but that Bentley is all scratch and dented, do i just go out and get a regular car, if that makes sense. I feel like im ok life is ok, but there is just something missing, even when i see her she never fills that void now, its like the person she was is who i wont My friend was cheated on and her and her bf broke up for a year and got back together and are married now. She needed the time away to let the old relationship die before she could start a new one with him
homebrew Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Reach out to her! Tell her how you feel! What do you have to lose? 2010_Sorry, based on your own thread... You have your own set of problems and you should not be giving advice. For the other kids... What does he have to lose? His self-esteem, his ego, his self-respect, his dignity, his pride, etc. When one loses those things above... The "one" isn't going to find you attractive or desirable in the least... In fact, the "one" will only be repulsed by you and your feeble attempts to guilt them back to being with you. It's not very becoming... Is that your desired outcome?
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