ShawnGirl Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 I am 44 years old, and have been married 26 years, we have 2 children, an 18 year old son and a 17 year old daughter. I left my husband 4 years ago, and returned after a year. We went through counseling and things improved. Almost to the day I returned, I regretted it. He only changed long enough to get me to return. He is very controlling, he isolates me. He has nothing to do with family, I am put in the middle of choosing between them. The only time I feel able to breathe is when I am away from him. There is no intimacy between us, we have not kissed in years, we do not hold hands, we do not hug. He did not wish me a happy birthday or a happy anniversary. He is rude, does not even thank people for gifts he is given on Christmas Day. I could go on and on...I am so unhappy, yet I am so scared. I know I can do this, I did it 4 years ago. I make excuses for him, I make myself believe it really isn't all that bad. But it is.
Karma20 Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 You walked away once, you can do it again. Walking into the unkown can be very scary but it can also be exciting depending how you look at it. You gave him a second chance so at least now you can walk away saying I did all could to try and make this work. Best of luck and everything will work out for the best.
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