mr.dream merchant Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 say you've met someone, you guys date for a month or two. Said person tells you "I'm so comfortable with you. My mom really likes you. All my friends are rooting for you/like you." Couple that with the things they do, their body language, and pure infatuation with you. But then end up splitting with you. What is that? What do you call that kind of behavior? Is there anyway to catch these kind of people ahead of time, so you can save yourself the time and energy?
january2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Sometimes relationships just end. For no reason at all. Even if you behaved 'perfectly' or were the perfect 'fit'. People can and do change their minds.
youngskywalker Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Had the exact thing happen to me once. 3-4 month relationship, met all the family and friends, she was hinting at marriage someday ect ect. I was the perfect guy for her. Then we broke up. Only thing I can say is look for the warning signs. It wasn't a perfect relationship and we had our red flags. But in the heat of infatuation it's so easy to overlook these. If she's saying she loves you but there are some lingering issues on the side don't count on it lasting. I could have fixed some of these problems but I thought why bother because she says she loves me. All is well.... at least that's what I thought.
joeLove Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Did the split come at her initiation ? if so, what was the main reason she gave you , assuming you both had some "check out" conversation ... say you've met someone, you guys date for a month or two. Said person tells you "I'm so comfortable with you. My mom really likes you. All my friends are rooting for you/like you." Couple that with the things they do, their body language, and pure infatuation with you. But then end up splitting with you. What is that? What do you call that kind of behavior? Is there anyway to catch these kind of people ahead of time, so you can save yourself the time and energy?
Karma20 Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Did she just get out of a relationship? You could have been a rebound. Sometimes people get caught up with having a relationship and don't really take the time to get to know someone, then when reality sinks in they start to really look at the person. You can analyze the things your exes do but you will probably never out the real reason they do things.
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