angielove Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 I'm 22 years old and find that I'm mostly attracted to young guys around 18 years old. You know, the ones that kinda look like Justin Beiber LOL! It's become so bad that my friends have nicknamed me "cougar" and "cradle-snatcher" Anyone else have the same problem?
aerogurl87 Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Well if you're attracted to younger guys you can legally date, there's nothing wrong with that. I don't like younger guys usually but my boyfriend just turned 19 and I'm 21. People still think I'm the younger of the two of us though because he's very mature and I just don't look my age to most people, lol.
january2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Nope. Can't say that I do. There's something very annoying about his fringe. It makes me want to get him in a headlock and give him a no. 1 haircut. *breathe*
Yer_Blues Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 I'm 22 years old and find that I'm mostly attracted to young guys around 18 years old. You know, the ones that kinda look like Justin Beiber LOL! It's become so bad that my friends have nicknamed me "cougar" and "cradle-snatcher" Anyone else have the same problem? Bieber looks like he is ten... so if you are attracted to ten year olds, that's potentially problematic. 18 year olds I see no problem with
Author angielove Posted December 28, 2010 Author Posted December 28, 2010 Is being attracted to 18 year olds who look like ten year olds okay?
Yer_Blues Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Is being attracted to 18 year olds who look like ten year olds okay? As long as you don't actually pursue ten year olds after you are no longer able to attract 18 year olds, go for it. Don't get too addicted though
creighton0123 Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 I'm 22 years old and find that I'm mostly attracted to young guys around 18 years old. You know, the ones that kinda look like Justin Beiber LOL! It's become so bad that my friends have nicknamed me "cougar" and "cradle-snatcher" Anyone else have the same problem? I don't think 18 year olds look like Justin Beiber. 14 year olds, maybe. At 18, they should be getting some muscle and abandoning the boy-like figure. I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 22. I don't find a problem in the age difference since we're both out of college, but some people do since he looks very young. As long as your taste in men ages with you, it generally is not problematic. Don't expect to find much in the way of maturity/longevity, though. 18 year old boys are also VERY verile. Expect some really hot sex. I know - I was 18 once.
musemaj11 Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 A lot of people dont feel inside as old as their outside.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Is being attracted to 18 year olds who look like ten year olds okay? You know what... YES, it has to be "OK". For we live in a society which places so much emphasis on that magical "18" threshold, and IF it is to matter in one direction (and to a more typical gender pairing), then it absolutely has to be fully accepted in the opposite direction as well. And if we as a society are going to hunt down adults that sexually pursue "minors" who are below the age of consent, then we have to allow that so-called "adults" above said age limit ARE allowed to make their own sexual choices, regardless of whether they "LOOK" 10. When the law becomes crystal clear in outlawing making admiring glances or sexual advances toward anyone who merely "LOOKS" 10 years of age then we shall have new criteria to work with. For now, though, the most clarity we can offer is the age of consent in your local area. If you're going to be prosecuted for sexual contact on one side of that line, then it simply must be allowed that you can frolic as you please with a consenting person on the other ('adult') side of that line.
Stonewall Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I really don't get this stigma about women dating younger men... The girl I'm dating right now is one of those. I'm 20 and she is 23, and she said she felt bad for making moves on a 20 year old. She said this, yet she had no problems dating a 28 year old guy... What we have here is a double standard. If you like to date younger men... GO FOR IT!!!!
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