Ellin Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Invariably the time would come - pretty quickly - when I realised why they were single!! There some deep wisdom in those words. Or great observational skills. I thinks every girl had a moment of such discovery at some point in life.
White Flower Posted December 30, 2010 Posted December 30, 2010 She was wrong to waste the cost of a PI - or the pictures on you two. Should have just continued on with her life. Eyes wide open, yes she should.
OWoman Posted December 31, 2010 Posted December 31, 2010 For the price she paid I would have expected 8x10 glossies. I may use them for my wedding invitations... That might dispay appropriately MM's love for his OW. I hope that, when you do, you're gracious enough to send one to her too...
pureinheart Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Oh, it already is better. He is out of my life. No turning back this time. RC, I'll have to read your first thread to get up to speed, although for right now, I hope the very best for you this year. I feel ya, bigtime:)
pureinheart Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 (edited) I hope that, when you do, you're gracious enough to send one to her too... I completely agree:D Had to edit this...wrong thread...lol. WF, a PI, after all that's happened...really. Edited January 1, 2011 by pureinheart
White Flower Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 I completely agree:D Had to edit this...wrong thread...lol. WF, a PI, after all that's happened...really. Really. You'd think she'd get a clue some time BEFORE the 40th year together. But actually, it was the first year he was trying to be true to himself, and being authentic is what got him caught. I'm glad he did, now everybody can deal with it.
fooled once Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 I was speaking from my experience as a wife. I was trying to point out that OW in your thread are referring to the connection and being needed etc, but one thing I saw missing in their posts was respect. Perhaps respect isn't important to them, I don't know. Maybe respect is a given so no one thought to mention it. What I do know is that men don't marry women they don't respect, and I doubt they'll leave existing marriages for them either. gotta agree with you jt. Why do these men protect the wife, if they allegedly have no respect for the wife? Why do they disrespect the OW so much, if they allegedly respect the OW? By respect, I mean hiding them, not being with them, remaining married, etc. For me, without respect, there is no relationship. Without respect, there is no foundation on which to build. I don't understand how a person can respect a coward, a liar and someone who allegedly isn't true to his 'true love'. How can a man treat the woman he allegedly loves poorly? How can a woman respect the way the man she allegedly loves treats not only her, but his wife and his marriage?
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