SmileFace Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 Right now I can say I am a women scorned.I really want to just a stand on my soap box and brawl about how much men suck and how I keep making the same ol' stupid mistakes. But I know that won't help me one bit. So I decided to look towards the New Year and to learn from my mistakes of this year. Last year's dating ended bad for me and it took me 3 months to get over a one month relationship. I made a mid March resolution that year , that I will never chase after a guy when he is blatantly showing me he is not interested. I have kept true to that resolution this year and will keep at it. So what are your New Year "dating" Resolutions? My New Year "Dating" Resolutions 1) I will not sleep with a guy until we have dated for 3 months or more . I have tried the when ever it feels right thing. It hasn't worked for me . I see this is something I need to change. I wish I could find a guy who didn't lose interest after sex. Since good sex is important to me , but that hasn't worked . So I would with hold from it - until I know a guy is really interested in me. 2) I will not use online dating - since it gives me a migraine thinking about it.lol 3) I will be more trusting. I have been so stuck in my ways that I don't let guys emotionally in. I need to get beyond a physical relationship with guys. 4) I will not go back to my FWB. I really want to try at a relationship with someone who I am not only with for sexual gratification. So those are mine for 2011, what are yours?
USMCHokie Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 1) I will not date. I think I'll try it out for a year and see how it goes.
Author SmileFace Posted December 27, 2010 Author Posted December 27, 2010 1) I will not date. I think I'll try it out for a year and see how it goes. I am so tempted to cross out the ones on my list and add that myself. Sigh, sadly enough I am not the only one having problems with this dating thing.
deebeechrisyo Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 After I move in a few months: 1. I'm going to pro-actively use online dating sites. Normally I just sit back and wait for women to message me, but I would like to take some initiative. 2. I really do want a long-term relationship, so I'm going to make an effort to find a girl who wants the same minus the FWB scenarios.
LondonS Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 I,ll be dating....I have been away from dating properly for a while until mid year and even then didnt make much effort due to my career comittments. I,ll be more trusting and less gaurded, generally less afriad to have my heart broken. I think it doesnt harm if we get hurt, as long as we see it as a step closer to the happy ever after !!! holding sex is something I do anyway for first 3 months so will carry on with that Happy 2011 folks !!
january2010 Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 1) I will not allow my emotions to get the better of me.
cutiecall Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Hi Great Post! Dating for me in 2010 was pretty much a disaster! My dating resolutions are also to wait a couple months for sex also. Not waste time obsessing over a guy if he is not interested or recipricating. Not get too emotionally involved if it is not appropriate. I will have to think of this a little more and get back to you.
Author SmileFace Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 I fell into temptation -- And will not date. I am taking 8 months off. Will not start dating or any type of sex until my 21st birthday. I am starting back school and work full time. I don't have the time for a healthy relationship. Best of luck on your resolutions everyone - what ever they may be.
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