rhonian Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 she lives in Philadelphia by herself. I have this thought of just showing up at her house tomorrow morning around 7 and to just start shoveling the snow. If she comes out, she comes out. If not, I'll shovel and go home.....NOTE: She was diagnosed with a disease last year and it is not good for her to be outside under those blizzard conditions.......HELP!!
USMCHokie Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 Please do not do that. If you do, I will personally drive up there, hunt you down, hit you in the face as hard as I can with a snow shovel, and then use that shovel to shovel the snow back on the sidewalks and driveway.
AbsoluteSucker Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 100% with USMC Hokie, don't do it...Not going improve anything, make you feel worse, she will work it out, I promise, that's what the neighbor kids on x-mas vacation can do for $10. The fact that you are even thinking about doing that shows that your a good dude and she knows it, that's not the problem. Focus on your own stuff exclusively without her and things will be better.
Author rhonian Posted December 27, 2010 Author Posted December 27, 2010 Thanks guys, I miss her so much. I never meant to hurt her.
USMCHokie Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 Thanks guys, I miss her so much. I never meant to hurt her. I know you're hurting and missing her, but doing stupid sh*t like what you had suggested will only prolong the pain.
Graceful Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 If you really need us to tell you that you can't and should not go to Phillie and shovel her driveway (and I know where you live b/c you have mentioned it) and that it is not even an option, then I will gladly tell you, too: You cannot go to Phillie and shovel her driveway for her. Please take this option completely off the table ... wait a minute. It's not an option, so you just can't do it! You've said enough in previous posts for me to know you're a good guy, and what happened was going to happen sooner or later. Stay the course. ps that was a doozie of an idea, but you need to save it for someone who deserves you.
Author rhonian Posted December 27, 2010 Author Posted December 27, 2010 You know what I just did? I took a pen and a pad of paper and literally wrote down 43 reasons why I ended the relationship (and Im not done the list yet). I would wash her clothes, rake her leaves, pickup her dogs $hit, drive 100 miles, pay the tolls, rub her face until she fell asleep when she was weak from the disease, help her cook, make the bed, vacuum, get down on my hands and knees and clean her floors, etc., all without her asking. I just did these things to show her I loved her. She never gave back! I was such a fool! Thanks folks, again.
delajoonal Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 she lives in Philadelphia by herself. I have this thought of just showing up at her house tomorrow morning around 7 and to just start shoveling the snow. If she comes out, she comes out. If not, I'll shovel and go home.....NOTE: She was diagnosed with a disease last year and it is not good for her to be outside under those blizzard conditions.......HELP!! oh sweetie, please do not do that... gosh, what a sweet heart u r...but she will think it is creepy and possible stalking issues.... but i SO get where your heart is...the right place...but ya, don't do it. maybe u can text or call and ask if she needs help? idk...maybe that's not good either? just keep up the good work, NC..OK..u can do this...we r all here for you...
Author rhonian Posted December 27, 2010 Author Posted December 27, 2010 Ok. After thinking it over. Im not doing it. Can someone tell me if women hate "SILENCE"? Im serious, take my relationship, together for 2 years, awesome sex, enjoyed activities together, talked marriage, even got engaged, laughed SOOOOO much.....now that that is gone, is this SILENCE killing her?
delajoonal Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 Ok. After thinking it over. Im not doing it. Can someone tell me if women hate "SILENCE"? Im serious, take my relationship, together for 2 years, awesome sex, enjoyed activities together, talked marriage, even got engaged, laughed SOOOOO much.....now that that is gone, is this SILENCE killing her? YES! i think if i don't hear from him, even tho i do not want to break NC, but if he doesn't call or email or something..i fREAK out! but everyone is dif..idk?
USMCHokie Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 .....now that that is gone, is this SILENCE killing her? Irrelevant. Next question...?
vandelay Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 .....now that that is gone, is this SILENCE killing her? I don't know, but it is sure doing a number on YOU!
Author rhonian Posted December 27, 2010 Author Posted December 27, 2010 OH, it is! I admit it. Good news is I have not contacted her for 16 days. Better news is, I have a million questions running thru my mind...Im human AND this is the place I choose to release those questions to make me feel better.
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