Eddie Edirol Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 That's not true at all. I'm 20 and my sex drive was crazy whenever my ex teased me, but I didn't go out and cheat on her. Yea, she should avoid guys who only care about themselves, but that doesn't mean it's all her fault. it is true, and it happens all the time...just like it happened here. Different strokes for different teenz.
Leandro Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 it is true, and it happens all the time...just like it happened here. Different strokes for different teenz. I'm just saying that it's not all her fault.
Author bellexxx Posted December 28, 2010 Author Posted December 28, 2010 update: im really missing him... im really missing being cared for and loved.. i sound so lame.. i keep thinking how if he didnt cheat how my whole holiday would have been so much better and we would still be together.. i think i wanna text him.. but i know i shouldnt.. i want him to be thinking about me and caring for me.. i havent heard from him so i guess he doesnt give a s***....
AbsoluteSucker Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Sound as lame as you want on here, it's better here than to him. You know how it is going to come across, and it's just going to make him feel better about himself, which is the last thing he needs. It's going to reinforce that what he did was okay and that is the last thing that you need. You can't know what he's thinking it's impossible, and at the same time, you don't want him to know what you're thinking. Don't do it, just keep posting here if you need support.
Breakupguy12 Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 we did have sex once, we both lost our virginities to each other, but i soon realised that i wasnt mature enough to have a sexual relationship and thats basically what started this problem. sometimes i feel that it was my fault because i teased him with sex before and now i denied him it, but i knew i really wasnt ready. he promised me he would try to wait for me and this promise lasted a week. he jusitifes what he did by saying he waited for so long, but i feel that if he truly loved me he would wait for me forever... maybe im too demanding thinking this.. maybe i did cause this.. im so confused right now... Hold old are you both? I don't think he's necessarily wrong for what he did. I think he could've/should've been more considerate and told you before he did it, however, if you guys are young (which it sounds like you both are), you must understand that he's young and immature, and may be in a mode where he's sowing his wild oats, and just doesn't know how to be sensitive to your feelings. You'll be fine in time, time will heal your emotional wounds. Sounds like you're young and have a life full of love to enjoy still. just be patient.
Leandro Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 I don't think he's necessarily wrong for what he did. So he's not wrong for cheating?
cboy90 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 Me and my ex (of 3.5 years) were 17 when we lost our virginity to each other. We were each others first. Met at 17 and just recently broke up 2 months ago. We waited 8 months to finally have sex. Definitely upped the excitement of the situation. What a way that was to ring in 2008 . I'd personally say move on. You can do so much better than someone who will treat you like that. Regardless of the fact of how long you waited, the fact of the matter is that HE CHEATED ON YOU. Plain and simple! That should be justification enough to not even worry about him anymore.
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