I crashed my car today because I was thinking about my ex, am I a loser?

[evilmonkey2008]

I crashed my car today, nothing too serious and my first crash! There goes my no claims! My ex of three years broke up me 3 months ago and left me for another guy! Just out of the blue! It has been my first serious break up and see her with another bloke who she claims she loves has killed me! Photos on fb and everything! Anyway I was coming down a hill in my car and started thinking about my ex I wasn't looking and a car went into me! I don't know why I keep thinking about her she doesn't give a **** about me! Can anyone help me?

[112233]

It makes you an inexperienced driver. Learn to focus.

 

The rest ... well it's always easier after the first few times. Best thing to do is get a fresh GF so you can eventually have another breakup, to get the hang of it better.

[Star Gazer]

Try not to be so hard on yourself. You were distracted by your thoughts. It happens all the time... With time you'll see you think about her less and less. Don't let the fact that you thought about her and were distracted deter you from forward progress.

[Fern]

I did this too. Crashed into another driver. Luckily I only did about £80 worth of damage and he was really nice about the whole thing - so it didn't go through the insurance. But I know where you're coming from. I even drove over a roundabout once by accident because I started CRYING while I was driving and couldn't see properly.

[westrock]

I wasn't looking and a car went into me!

If another car went into your car, that sounds like the other car would have crashed into you no matter what you were thinking.

[Enema]

I've nearly crashed before while checking out a hot piece of ass on the side of the road, I think that's worse!