isitme1 Posted December 26, 2010 Posted December 26, 2010 I keep telling myself to come to the realization that is over...she broke w/you! She doesn't want to be with you!! What are you doing to yourself??!!! I am more upset w/myself about talking to her via text...I just need to stop doing this to myself because I go back to square 1!! I got on here to search for advice and to see how people are handling their situations...I do the opposite...its not fair to all the good people that I seek help from...for tat I am sorry...I am a slow learner...there are some good references on here that recommend people reading...The guide to being dumped!! That is really a great piece to read and if you need help please follow it...I am like everyone else on here...scared about the person forgetting you, trying to figure things out on why it ended, the other person factor, and of course hoping to reconcile. I am also upset w/myself that I am not depending on my Faith in which I should...I want the instant gratification that everything is going to be alright just like everyone else...ITS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!It really sucks to go through this because all you want to do is call your ex and hope they say everything is going to be alright...They are not going to say that...They will feel sorry for you and give them more conviction and better understanding why they are out of your life! you will also keep burying yourself a deeper hole in which there is not getting out of...So please do what you can and take it from me...do not contact your EX...it makes things worse...if its meant to be it will be...I need to practice what I preach but its damn hard to do!!!!!! Now figure out what I should do now!!!
anna74 Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 Good post. I went almost 2 months nc, after he'd been ignoring me for weeks. One day I was feeling weak, and broke nc...he replied. That was it!!!! It was a downward spiral from there. I feel so stupid!!! I have dreams that everything is ok, and when I wake up it's the most horrible feeling. One thing I did learn is that time does change situations. When we stopped talking we were on UGLY terms. After 2 months, I text him and he replied within seconds. Can you imagine if i would have just let time do it's thing? I made my situation worse. Anna
9Lives Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 (edited) Ignore your feelings right now, they are lying to you so dont trust them. Your sole job right now is...ignore your lying feelings. Whatever you think about your ex coming to you, or whatever craziness is in your mind..ignore. Stop thinking your ex wants what is good for you anymore. You are two different people now...not one. he/she is not your baby boo anymore. Its a new chapter. Stop turning the pages to chapter 2. You are at this very moment...in chapter 3. Make it better. they left you. They meant to leave you. Focus on getting over it and nothing else. We are the professionals here and you are in the school of life right now about to graduate. Leave it alone! I know it is very hard. We allll had to endure it and it is not fun. This is not a game either. You are trying to move on with your life. That is the only reason you are doing nc. The only reason. Edited December 27, 2010 by 9Lives
Leandro Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 you are trying to move on with your life. That is the only reason you are doing nc. The only reason. ding ding ding ding!!!
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