Needing comfort...

[colosseum]

I feel like a huge *******. I just didn't think it right to wait longer and act like nothing's wrong.

 

I broke up with my girl today on Christmas day through Skype.

 

Okay, I could've waited. New Year's, then her birthday in January.

 

****.

 

I adore her, I've never met anyone like her before, but I just don't think I'm ready for something like it. I just feel like I need to collect myself, like I need to put myself back together before I can really do something with another person.

 

It just pains me because she confessed her love for me a few weeks ago too.

 

I know, I am the big *******.

 

But I can feel like **** too, can't I? Because I do. And I'm doing the typical second-guessing and doubting.

 

Because maybe this wasn't the right decision. I thought it was going into it.

[vandelay]

 

I broke up with my girl today on Christmas day through Skype.

 

 

Ouch. That's gotta hurt.

[SDA]

My ex had those same reasons. Sucks, I miss her but now I understand. You had to do what you had to do. Clear your head.

[fiat500]

Why break up with her THROUGH SKYPE???

 

Did she not deserve a respectful breakup face to face???? Why through the internet????

 

HELLO. You may have your reasons for the breakup but for God's sake WHY DID IT HAVE TO BE OVER THE INTERNET?

 

That's like taking a massive dump on someone. I wouldn't wish a break up over the internet on Christmas Day on my worst enemy.

 

When you're breaking up with someone ALWAYS do it HONORABLY. Which is FACE to FACE.

[TaraMaiden]

You're going to file this under the "Things I wish I had not done" section in your mind.

 

For a long time.

 

One, I think breaking up with her was a little drastic.

 

And yeah, your timing and methods both S-U-C-K.

 

Big time.

 

And two, did you discuss your fears with her?

Did she have any inkling, clue or notion you were feeling like this?

Any idea she had this one coming?

 

You need to leave this be, and if she contacts you again, ask her if you can meet to talk.

Then try to be a little open, honest and transparent to her.

Communication is a wonderful thing - if you do it right....

 

[colosseum]

You're going to file this under the "Things I wish I had not done" section in your mind.

 

For a long time.

 

yeah. too late.

 

f***.