newpriorities Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays Everyone! I'm posting here to vent and stop myself from emailing him--just need a little support. My kids are home from college and my house is full of happy people--even my separated H is over for the holiday--this is what I want to focus on. MM keeps popping (oops, typo--at first I typed "pooping" a bit Freiduan??) into my head. I want to email him and wish him a Merry Christmas but I know I would just be fishing and for what? Honestly, for what? Nothing! I guess I just wish I understood why/how some people can say one thing (I love you so much...blah, blah, blah) but then their actions are completely different? My xMM is a master at compatmentalizing his life and I don't get it. But, the good news is, I really am learning not to care anymore.
skywriter Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 ....and that's the beginning of the end newpriorities, not caring anymore. Indifference can be a wonderful tool towards healing yourself. I strive to use this technique until I am healed myself. Big hugs, and best wishes for a healthier 2011.
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