attractive body, not so hot face?

[bsilmb]

bump!

 

please ^

[musemaj11]

yeah and she responds quick, BUT she doesn't talk too much. she's done some cool stuff, but she doesn't give me much to work with sometimes. I wanna be flirty and stuff.

Dude, she contacted you even though she barely knew you. That takes a lot of balls.

 

What more do you want? She is already yours.

 

Just ask her to eat lunch together at school. If you dont go to the same school then ask her to walk around at the mall or something. I mean you guys are still kids. Its much much easier for you. Trust me. At that age, girls still have very low expectation. She is probably happy enough to be treated to an ice cream.

[summerl0vesyou]

I feel like im going to jail for looking at your body O.O

 

....two words though, regarding her face. doggy style.

 

Okay, seriously. Just ask the girl out. if she says no, fine, they come and go. if she says yes, there you go. Just ask her to a movie or something.

[dispatch3d]

Want to hang out?

 

Or "going to a movie, you should come."

 

I think direct+showing interest is probably better than the 2nd though (indirect but no pressure).

 

Try not to text her too much about inane bull****. It seems to just apply pressure to things working out (better to have no expectations for her going into things. Less anxiety for her).

[bsilmb]

I feel like im going to jail for looking at your body O.O

 

....two words though, regarding her face. doggy style.

 

Okay, seriously. Just ask the girl out. if she says no, fine, they come and go. if she says yes, there you go. Just ask her to a movie or something.

 

 

 

lol yeah doggy style. she's got an amazing body though, it's ridiculous. I think I would do it missionary or something lol, gotta see the awesome everything (;

 

 

and yeah I need to do something soon, get the ball rolling.

[musemaj11]

It sounds like you just wanna use this girl.

 

I wonder if I just indirectly participated in a crime ...

[dreamingoftigers]

lol I'm not even average looking?!

 

 

never been told I'm ugly, just average or cute

 

I don't think that you have butterface. You are fine, go get the girl you like. Lots of people have different attractions, many would have you believe that everyone is only attracted to the same things. Of course many of us are attracted to soft skin and clear eyes etc. but sometimes a person's odd characteristics can really be a driving factor in attraction, even today when the media has taken over.

 

Some people may like a crooked nose because perhaps they had a kind neighbour when they were a child. So when later on in life they see someone with a crooked nose, it engenders good feelings towards them.

 

My father had short fingers and rough hands. These are not conventionally attractive traits (and actually I couldn't stand my father). One thing I did respect about him was that he was a hard worker and his hands reflected that. My husband has the same hands (and actually so do I) and I find it kind of heart-warming (even though my husband had almost never worked when I met him, my brain just wired the feelings with the stimulus).

[bsilmb]

I don't think that you have butterface. You are fine, go get the girl you like. Lots of people have different attractions, many would have you believe that everyone is only attracted to the same things. Of course many of us are attracted to soft skin and clear eyes etc. but sometimes a person's odd characteristics can really be a driving factor in attraction, even today when the media has taken over.

 

Some people may like a crooked nose because perhaps they had a kind neighbour when they were a child. So when later on in life they see someone with a crooked nose, it engenders good feelings towards them.

 

My father had short fingers and rough hands. These are not conventionally attractive traits (and actually I couldn't stand my father). One thing I did respect about him was that he was a hard worker and his hands reflected that. My husband has the same hands (and actually so do I) and I find it kind of heart-warming (even though my husband had almost never worked when I met him, my brain just wired the feelings with the stimulus).

 

 

thank you, and that's awesome. I really like this post.

 

and today at about 9 my friend texts me: why haven't you texted blah today?

and I said I though I bored her. and he said: I wouldn't say that, she just texted me saying you hadn't talked to her today.

 

so Ive Been texting her again. I'm guessing this is a good sign?

[bsilmb]

thank you, and that's awesome. I really like this post.

 

and today at about 9 my friend texts me: why haven't you texted blah today?

and I said I though I bored her. and he said: I wouldn't say that, she just texted me saying you hadn't talked to her today.

 

so Ive Been texting her again. I'm guessing this is a good sign?

 

so we've been texting for like 3 hours, I know it's a bad idea, but things are getting good. I got her pretty comfortable and the convo doesn't feel forced. and the topic came up of her in bed somehow. then she says that she was naked. not really in a sexual way, but she still told me she was naked! I'm getting flirtier too

[january2010]

looks aren't my main concern, but it is usually what initially attracts me to a girl, but not always. we are 15 btw.

 

....two words though, regarding her face. doggy style.

 

and the topic came up of her in bed somehow. then she says that she was naked. not really in a sexual way, but she still told me she was naked! I'm getting flirtier too

 

I know that it's a big world out there but this thread doesn't quite sit right with me.

[bsilmb]

I know that it's a big world out there but this thread doesn't quite sit right with me.

 

haha typed it wrong we are actually 16 if that changes anything. and I was kidding about sex, I'm abstinent til marriage, no exceptions. thatdoggy style thing was too far. I think she is cute, not ugly like some think. she sia that but it wasn't serious or implying anything, just weird to hear. sit any better?

[LexiB]

I know that it's a big world out there but this thread doesn't quite sit right with me.

 

ditto...

[dispatch3d]

haha typed it wrong we are actually 16 if that changes anything. and I was kidding about sex, I'm abstinent til marriage, no exceptions. thatdoggy style thing was too far. I think she is cute, not ugly like some think. she sia that but it wasn't serious or implying anything, just weird to hear. sit any better?

 

There is nothing wrong with wanting doggy style from a chick. Last I checked sex with hot women from behind was both fun and healthy.

[LexiB]

There is nothing wrong with wanting doggy style from a chick. Last I checked sex with hot women from behind was both fun and healthy.

 

Absolutely. It's just his age relevant to the topic that I'm reacting to. I know even middle school kids are having sex these days but there's something about discussing doggy style vs. missionary vs. x other position with a *child* [sorry op!] that just seems a little... to me.

[bsilmb]

Absolutely. It's just his age relevant to the topic that I'm reacting to. I know even middle school kids are having sex these days but there's something about discussing doggy style vs. missionary vs. x other position with a *child* [sorry op!] that just seems a little... to me.

 

 

I totally agree. I mean I don't have anything againstthe poste who says it's alright, BUT IM 16! I'm far too young and irresponsible to be doing that yet. I just want to have fun and date a nice girl. thanks for all the posts!

[dreamingoftigers]

Go have fun and date the nice girl, be nice too.