yah Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 I just HAD to share and get this off my chest. There aren't that many people I could tell this to IRL. I met my ex-fiance in 2007, we dated, fell in love, got engaged, planned to get married early 2009. I thought I was going to be spending the rest of my life with this person. Anyway, suffice it to say we had a baaaaad fight that ended with him just getting up and leaving (for another state, he was/is in the army and they moved him). I never saw him since. I cried for a solid 2 months and the sadness was soooo overwhelming. Anyway, 3 months later he called. And he kept calling/texting every so often. I was so mad at him I never initiated the calls/texts. The last real conversation we had was in summer 2009. He said he had started dating a girl and found out she cheated on him. Late 2009 I get drunken texts from him calling the girl all kinds of names. He kept saying she tricked him. I didn't know why though because I thought he broke up with her. I also started dating my current BF so I didn't reply. GUESS WHAT!! I found out now he has an 8mo old baby. I did the math; they had to have been pregnant summer 2009. That's why he stopped calling and explains the name-calling. It all makes sense now!! She might've cheated but she had his baby. O-M-G!! After he left I was so emotional. Now I just feel sorry for him. I'm glad things didn't work out between us. It was really for the best (for me, anyway).
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Sounds like you got the closure that you needed.
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