singlelife Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 If a girl you flirt with finds your fb and friends you does that mean she is interested? Also if you flirt with a girl and she offers her fb is she interested. I mean in more than just friends.
runner Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 ugh...nothing kills a boner like facebook. Q1: i'd say she's curious, not necessarily interested. Q2: i'd lean on the idea that she just wants to be friends- but i could be wrong. a girl who wants you, wants you on the phone or in person, not through fb.
joeLove Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 Someone wrote a book (or was it just an article? don't remember) on how to use facebook to score chics ... You might want to check it out ...
East7 Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 YES and NO. It may mean just sympathy, friendship. It shows a degree of interest ? YES but if she is really attracted she will initiate contact, PM, comments etc and will escalate to call, meeting and dating. Just adding on list doesn't mean anything to me. Let her initiate contact so you'll have more signals.
Author singlelife Posted December 25, 2010 Author Posted December 25, 2010 So you are supposed to let them IM you and send you messages right? So what else are the signs they want you. And does anybody have advice on how to get dates off facebook
guitar23 Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 For what it's worth: A girl I've been "friends" with for a while randomly wrote on my FB wall a while back. I took this as a sign to chat her, as she was online at the time and it was kind of late. We talked for hours. We chatted a bit more over the next few weeks. Eventually SHE suggested that we hang out and exchanged numbers. The next night she quit chatting and texted me "No more facebook." This soon led to more texting, phone calls, etc. Wound up hanging out last week, seemed to go pretty well but now she's not as talkative via text and never is on facebook. So who knows how it works out in the end. Can't tell if this is a sign to move strictly to phone calls or if I had spinach in my teeth all night and that's why she was laughing. Long story short, I would say if you become facebook friends, initiate the chat and if you two hit it off that way, she will more than likely hint at other means of communication, and hopefully eventually a date. Unfortunately that might be as far as it goes, but hopefully you will have better luck! I would say the beauty of fb chat is if she responds, chances are she is a little interested. If there is no response, that's generally a sign that she doesn't care to get to know you better at this time, but it's a lot less awkward that outright rejection in person.
Author singlelife Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 Ok so the last two days I have just been working at networking and giving good comments a likes on the hot girls fb. One girl who is HOT was sharing that she thought she was ugly because of a bad break up. One of her friends comments that she is pretty so don't worry. I gave that post a like and the HOT girl comments is she reall who? I replied that yes she is and her personality is off the chain. She replied big smiles and made a good comment as well. Then today I posted a pic and another hot girl ( who happens to be the first girls bff) made a great comment. Actually she had been comment and posting likes to a lot of my pics and comments. SO it's hard to read what's actually happening. I thought maybe one of them likes me so they keep commenting. One of the hot girls we have im a few times and she took my cell but has yet to call. SO it's kinda confusing. Any idea's?
guitar23 Posted December 29, 2010 Posted December 29, 2010 The reply to your comment could just be a way of expressing gratitude, but the second girl commenting on things you posted on your FB seems like a sign of interest. Think about it, she either was at your page and saw it (why would she be at your page looking at pics if she wasn't at least a little curious) or it showed up on her news feed and she clicked on it (again, think of how many updates show up on the mini-feed....she chose to look at yours...sign of interest). This isn't to say that either of them automatically wants to date you or hook up, but at the same time, there is interest there, so build on that positive vibe and move forward. Good luck!
Author singlelife Posted December 30, 2010 Author Posted December 30, 2010 Ok thanks. FB is so weird. You just can't go all out because it will ruin everything. I get your point I guess she does check out my page. She gives me a like on like every other post. More than any of my hundreds of friends. And she comments everynow and then. SO I guess we'll jut see how it goes. I guess it helps other girls are also commenting on how sexy I am in my pics. SO hopefully she will notice.
Author singlelife Posted January 1, 2011 Author Posted January 1, 2011 One of the girls I was talking about was on last night. So I sent her an IM and we joked around. She told me to call or text sometime and sent her cell. So I told her we need to get together sometime. The I texted her to make sure she had my cell. We texted and joked for awhile. Then I wished her a happy ny. So I take it she was interesed a lil bit. I was gonna see if she wanted to get together last night but she was already out and was drunk so I didn't know if she already had stuff going on. Any advice going forward. I plan on calling her in a few days.
guitar23 Posted January 1, 2011 Posted January 1, 2011 Sounds like things are moving along quite well! Eerily similar to my situation a couple of months ago. Just keep it light and fun on the texting/calling. Don't bombard her with messages, and don't get upset if she doesn't respond in timely fashion from time to time. With the girl I referred to, we would go a few days without contact here and there. I actually got really busy and didn't text her for 3-4 days, but then she texted me and we picked it right back up. Right now it seems that y'all are feeling each other out a bit, which is good. It is cliche, but the truth: Just be yourself and if y'all have some chemistry then just let it play itself out. Long story short, sounds like you could be on your way, just be easy on the ride and don't force anything right now.
Author singlelife Posted January 2, 2011 Author Posted January 2, 2011 Sounds like things are moving along quite well! Eerily similar to my situation a couple of months ago. Just keep it light and fun on the texting/calling. Don't bombard her with messages, and don't get upset if she doesn't respond in timely fashion from time to time. With the girl I referred to, we would go a few days without contact here and there. I actually got really busy and didn't text her for 3-4 days, but then she texted me and we picked it right back up. Right now it seems that y'all are feeling each other out a bit, which is good. It is cliche, but the truth: Just be yourself and if y'all have some chemistry then just let it play itself out. Long story short, sounds like you could be on your way, just be easy on the ride and don't force anything right now. sweet! i will take it slow. don't want to scare her away
Author singlelife Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 I see her online all the time but don't hit her up. When I post I always have a few girls reply about 15 times ( they do it on their own ) and she sees it and posts or gives me likes on all my posts. I guess it's working.
Author singlelife Posted January 5, 2011 Author Posted January 5, 2011 we talked this am and texted all day off and on. She said she couldn't come over today but she wanted me her and her bff ( the other girl on fb who did flirt with me ) to hang out soon. We flirted hard and I told her not get to wild with me as I am a good boy. She laughed and flirted a little more. Every time we talk she always includes her friend. Don't know if the friend really likes me or both. But it seems to br going good,
Author singlelife Posted January 12, 2011 Author Posted January 12, 2011 Ok they called me tonite and anting to get together and party. If it wasn't snowed in we would go hang out tonite. SO it looks like playing it cool is working out.
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