youaretheone Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 I was at this chrismtas dinner with my aunt's friend and his other friends and there was this woman who is 30'ish years old. (I am 22.) She was very interested in getting to know me and she was always talking to me on the table, asking questions, making private jokes for me, touching my arm and leg when she is speaking. She also asked where I lived and if I am going home after the dinner. Since my aunt's friend was sitting right next to me, I could not do a move on her and I wasn't even sure if she was just being friendly or more than that so I just had to leave before her to catch my last train. (She had to take a different train later at night to go home.) I generally try to test the limits if there is a woman my age but this was different and I was really unsure about how to proceed. I have no idea if I will see her again but I want to hear your opinions on this and maybe some little advice for the next time this might happen again.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 Well, she might seem old to you but she's a young woman in the long and short of things. She may be feeling loneliness if she's single and perhaps like she's getting old and needs to do something. Been there too. 30ish ain't nothing' but people experiencing it for the first time worry that they are on the verge of being left out of life if they don't connect with someone. Apparently you were unattached and available and she was attracted to you. There's always the possibility that she was just being "friendly" and all that but I think that's nonsense. People know what the hell time it is for the most part. If this happens again and you find the woman attractive, there's no reason I can think of to not have a little thing with her. Just be cautious to keep it as a "moment" for both of you unless you want to be in a relationship with an older woman. She'll probably be good with it just having that "moment" with an attractive young laddy buck. Not everyone is "fatal attraction". Go for it.
sam light Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 Ask the others about her and ask them for her number. Think who would she ask about you, then ask that person if she thinks MS 30 would be interested. Go for it.
Author youaretheone Posted December 25, 2010 Author Posted December 25, 2010 (edited) The problem is, I am living by myself for the first time alone in a new city and this aunt's friend is one of the only people I can rely on here. He is very good friends with this woman so I am not sure how to handle this without being "the guy who hits on older women who are close friends with him" in his eyes, which could lead to a bad reputation, especially if she was acting friendly and I am misreading her signs. Edited December 25, 2010 by youaretheone
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