should i continue with his?

[moonlight123]

What if you are engaged to a man and he has a history of cheating on you with a workmate 1 year ago.

 

Say he had a real relationship with her and then when you found out he cut contact with her and then got back with you and apologized saying it was just a fling.

 

A couple months later he proposes. I don't trust him still a year after I found out about the cheating. I really loved him and want it to work so I said yes to the engagement. I am always suspicious of him and checking his phone, phone bills and even calling him during the day and night to check on him. The trust is ruined but I love him so much and I know he loves me too. Is there any hope for this? Should I still marry him?

[january2010]

Until the trust issues have been resolved, I don't think you should marry him.

[fooled once]

What if you are engaged to a man and he has a history of cheating on you with a workmate 1 year ago.

 

Say he had a real relationship with her and then when you found out he cut contact with her and then got back with you and apologized saying it was just a fling.

 

A couple months later he proposes. I don't trust him still a year after I found out about the cheating. I really loved him and want it to work so I said yes to the engagement. I am always suspicious of him and checking his phone, phone bills and even calling him during the day and night to check on him. The trust is ruined but I love him so much and I know he loves me too. Is there any hope for this? Should I still marry him?

 

????

 

aren't you still in love with a guy you dated for 3 months who is engaged? Not to sound harsh, but aren't you a little hypocritical for stating you don't trust this guy when you just posted about being in love with a former lover?

 

No, you shouldn't marry someone you don't trust. Relationships are built on trust. If there is no foundation, there is no way to grow or build on it.