hubboy Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 well here's the story, My baby momma and have been randomly hooking up for the past 2 1/2 years or so. When we hooked up for the first time I told her we shouldn't do that again and her reply was that she wanted to keep doing it so she wouldn't have to go out to find someone for sex. At the time she told me that it seemed to make sense so I trusted her. As I said this goes on for another 2 years or so until the past few months we have been getting really close and I had been thinking about reconciling with her. but something was nagging at me. during this whole hooking up time I always asked her if she was with n e one else or dated someone. Cuz I still had feelings for her but I was willing to let her go if she wanted to be with other pipl. she always replied with no of course not. Well this past Sunday I really pushed her for an answer because I told her I was thinking about totally reconciling our relationship and really getting serious. Her answer just about floored me because my feelings for her now are quite strong. over the past 2 years she told me she has been going out to clubs hooking up strangers and having one night stands or getting with guys she meets while she is shopping. When I ask for a number she first said 13 then changed to 7 then 10 so whatever i'm sure its alot. but n e way i was devastated when she told me this. I felt like I had been cheated on in the worst way. Even though we weren't officially together. also what kills me is that she lied the whole time and she completely fooled me into thinking she was someone she wasn't. So I am over reacting? even though what she told me in the beginning about not having to be other guys was a complete lie. She feels awful about it and she says she has a problem. I still love her very much but this seems like too much to get past for me cuz of what she told me in the beginning and throughout this whole time about not seeing other guys. Also during this time she questioned me quite often about my sex life and I was honest with her that I saw another girl during this time and I told her about it, but she didn't do the same. So should I just forget the whole thing and move on or try to make it work?
Don_da_Ho Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 Make it work? Sure, if you like smelling other guys' exhaust.
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