soulm8 Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 I've been keeping busy with work, my kids, settling into my new place, and dating... all to help me move on and heal. This past weekend I discovered via Facebook, that my ex is engaged to the woman he met in September, while we were still (supposedly) together. It hurts so much and confuses the hell out of me.
Els Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 He's engaged to someone he's only known for 3 months?! C'mon, surely you don't believe theirs will be a happy ending??
cboy90 Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 I'm with Elswyth on this. I'd say, give it around 6 months. Tops!
paleblue Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 engaged already? bahahahahaah. i know it is hurting you. and i am sorry to hear that. i wouldnt be surprised if you were contacted by him someday when his life blows up and he is crying about getting dumped. by then i hope you don't care.
J0N Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 He sounds like a real turkey. Getting engaged after only 3 months seams reeeeAaally smart to me. You are surely better off without a guy like this. Sorry.
vandelay Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 I agree with everyone else. This guy has really set himself up to crash and burn. I am sure he is about to learn some important lessons, just as you are. Its gonna be ok for you.
tobydog Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 haha, this will not last and he will be the loser! You have that to look forward to! Take care and just wait for the dirt to hit the fan, as I am doing.....x
strangeways Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 It's mental. Grab some popcorn, get a comfy seat and enjoy the show! Seriously, this guy is an idiot. Be thankful you're out of it. You've got kids (so have I). He is not a good role model.
Buzzkillington Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 I feel really sorry for you, it must be a horrible feeling. But it won't last, and if it does it most likely won't end happily... the odds nowadays say that anyway but having only known each other for three months, there's almost no chance surely. I'm expecting to hear from someone at some point that my ex is engaged... and that's only since October. She never talked about marriage, but since has mentioned it when we talked, about how she wants to - suddenly she's interested. I feel for you like I said.
sammyd Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 I echo all of the above thoughts. You're a lucky gal:) Delete him from your FB, and keep movin' on. You sound like you're doing great so far. Just think meh, doesn't concern u anymore, good luck, they're gonna need it!!
Author soulm8 Posted December 29, 2010 Author Posted December 29, 2010 Thank you all for the kind words. He's not on FB... he's set his preferences so that anyone can view his 'stuff'. I absolutely agree to having dodged a bullet. ... they've set a date for Summer 2012... she'll dump his a$$ long before then.
Author soulm8 Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 Apparently, they are officially over now. He texted me in Oct 2012 and then again this weekend. 1
Survivor12 Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Apparently, they are officially over now. He texted me in Oct 2012 and then again this weekend. Yeah, probably what he told her about you. Do yourself a big favor and stop reading his texts and trying to keep track of what he is doing. Ignore him. Like you said, you dodged a bullet--so now you should know to stay out of the line of fire.
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