gingerbread Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 I am a BS, currently separated, with a H who identifies himself as a "split-self" and "exit affair" mix (according to Emily Brown's work on affairs). Anyone out there who can relate? What was the outcome? He is certain he wants a divorce, but the affair hasn't been going on for very long (less than a year). I thought I saw some posts from grogster about this, and would like to hear from him if anyone can send a message to him. I'm doing my best to recover on my own, reading books and doing my own counselling, but I want to be able to tell my children that I did everything I could to reconcile. Is there anything more I can do in this situation?
homebrew Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 (edited) A what? A huh? A who? Hahahahaha! I am all about trying to understand what is going on in the mind of the dumper and the reason that led to the break up... But let's not get carried away with it! At the end of the day... no matter what "reason" you or I come up with... You still have to accept and come to terms with the TRUTH. What is that? The undeniable Truth is this... If your EX really wanted to be with you, they would! You cannot get around that simple fact... and the sooner you accept it... the sooner you start to heal. Edited December 24, 2010 by homebrew
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