rhonian Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 are broken up. Now she wont stop texting me and wants to come over tonite to watch the Steelers/Panthers game. I am lonely. I know that she wants to have sex or atleast would. Someone help me understand the dynamic of NC with your ex and having your ex prior to your ex knowing you two are broken up and is squirming her way in (did you get all that, LOL).... Also, I dont even want anyone around and am so emotionally/physically tied to my NC ex that I couldnt even "function" with the old ex.... Confusing huh?? ....HELP!
Graceful Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 are broken up. Now she wont stop texting me and wants to come over tonite to watch the Steelers/Panthers game. I am lonely. I know that she wants to have sex or atleast would. Someone help me understand the dynamic of NC with your ex and having your ex prior to your ex knowing you two are broken up and is squirming her way in (did you get all that, LOL).... Also, I dont even want anyone around and am so emotionally/physically tied to my NC ex that I couldnt even "function" with the old ex.... Confusing huh?? ....HELP! I usually refer to my ex as my ex. The person before him is my "ex ex". So I take it you are referring to you "ex ex" ? This is easy. Tell her to please stop contacting you. You're not over your previous r/l and you're not a piece of meat. Coming after you so soon after your breakup is so tacky. It's crass that she wants to see you and sleep with you, as though you have no feelings for your ex and would automatically want to sleep with her again, just like "that". Please do not entertain her; tell her not to come by. Tell her the truth. You're not interested, you're still healing. Then say thanks anyway! PS I am very glad to see you are sticking to NC. Your r/l with that woman was very very dysfunctional and despite the fact you are not over her, I hope you are feeling better with the lack of drama. Take care.
january2010 Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 Block and delete. Don't go backwards. Go forwards.
Author rhonian Posted December 24, 2010 Author Posted December 24, 2010 Thanks Grace, I honestly dont even think I could get it up (sorry) for anyone but my ex right now. Truth is, this "exex" has been periodically contacting me for the last 2 years and she will not go away. You would not believe how rude I have been to her to make her go but she wont disappear now matter what I say. Even thru the 2 years with my ex, I couldnt even tell my ex about my exex's contact for fear of her not believing and understanding that I would never cheat on her, in other words, not trust all the way around on my ex's part. Thanks folks.
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