wordd Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 Hi all, I have been dating a woman that has a 3 year old (the first time in my life with dating someone with a child and I am 28) for around 6 months. The first 4 months of our relationship went really well then I started to get attached to both her and her child. We meet off a internet dating site and live around 40 miles from each other, so I drive to her house the first 4 months every night. Well around 2 months ago as I got attached we started to get into minor problems like her sex drive went almost all the way down to 0 from once or twice a week at least. She has also started to use the internet dating site that we once meet off of again even tho she has not went out on a date with any of them, which I discover and bring up a few times. We would go 1 week great then another week off,in which we are always taking every other day apart now, which is when she would use the dating site. I have became a little clingy and worry a lot since recently we just cannot get back into swing even tho she has deleted the site now to make me a little more comfortable. Some how we have not ended this relationship which I think is comming. Maybe the holiday season is what is holding her back from ending it. Should I give up even tho I do care for both of them or should I take another approach?
joeLove Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 If you really like her/both, the it is time for a serious productive conversation. Obviously, there is something about you she isn't comfortable with and she needs to tell you clearly what it is. It is up to you to see if it is something you can improve on or not. Joe
CandyHeart Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 You need to sit her down and have a serious talk with her, ask her if there is something she is missing or something you can improve on and tell her how you feel about her and the relationship.
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