Invite?? REALL?

[SmileFace]

nevermind............

Edited December 23, 2010 by SmileFace

[Madgick1]

Why not?

 

The guy I'm sort of pre-courting via phone because he's out of town a lot and I were talking on the phone a couple days ago. I asked what he was doing for Xmas. He's divorced (second xmas divorced), no kids, no family within a thousand miles (and they are kind of messed up, so he isn't close to them), so kind of alone. I think he didn't want to to sound pitiful or down, so he said he was thinking of spending a day in DC, or maybe going to NYC. And tied it to a work related reason.

 

I think he's lonely. It's also his bday the 27th. He told me how he was going to spend it. It sounds lonely too.

 

I'm out of state for for two weeks, but if I were at home, I would have invited him over for Xmas or Xmas eve. I once spent a Thanksgiving all alone and it was very sad. This Thanksgiving I invited someone from work who'd only moved to the city 10 days before and just joined our division.

 

I think it was kind of him to invite you. Not weird at all.

[SmileFace]

Aww now everyone is going to think you are talking to your self.

 

I don't have what I originally write but in the original it said that I have been talking to this guy for three weeks. He invited to his parents house for Christmas.And I refused saying it would be weird and awkward. He knew I had no Christmas plans myself. I think I hurt his feelings .

 

I deleted my message because it isn't weird . I just have a horrid phobia about meeting someones parents. It seems too permanent for me. So I realized my question only reflected on something I need to work .

 

Thanks for replying . I appreciate it ... :-)

[Madgick1]

I'm not eager to meet anyone's parents either. It's tedious enough to be with my own.

[SmileFace]

I'm not eager to meet anyone's parents either. It's tedious enough to be with my own.

Are you my mom's child?